Wont go away
was with future sister in law sunday...Her cell phone rings...it was my FH ex wife....I was so on the spot..She called to tell her ex sister in law that her dog died and she needs support....this woman will not go away.....She wanted to know if her ex (my fh knew)???
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ok.....
why did she call ex sil....are they still close?
apparently so
and i feel like im talked about im sure...She answered the phone and said well nicole is with me....and i heard the ex say well i bet your uncomfortable....It was just a big shock...I know now to not tell the Future siste in law anything about me and my life...Am i being a baby?? Its like everywhere i turn the ex has her ass in something.
that's odd......
were you not aware of their relationship? I'd be really careful with that SIL!!!!
I had NO idea
no i didnt know...and apparently she still calls the ex mother in law and all his family....They still talk to the ex step kids..which is fine, but is it normal to stay that close to the exes family...I mean me and my ex ehere married for 14 years and married at 18 and i dont talk to his family.....
I guess it depends on the
situation? My mom stayed very good friends with all my dad's family after the divorce. They all took my moms side, so I am not sure about that. I do not speak to my ex's family, though I havent had any occassion to either.
It depends...
I think it depends on the situation and those involved. I have remained very close to my MIL from my first marriage and both my brother in laws. However, I have nothing to do with my ex husband and havn't even spoken to him in years. I divorced him,never regretted it for a second, and just don't care to have anything to do with him. My relationship with his mother has nothing to do with him as far as I am concerned.
In a perfect world their would be retroactive abortion capabilities. ~ disgusted
insane
they all insane,every bm out there lol, they will never ever go away
and we will all live in hell forever LoL
I am a BM myself, my ex does
I am a BM myself, my ex does not speak to his own family very often and since I have our son, guess who has all the contact with them? yep, me! I am the one that sends them pictures, emails them about whats going on in his life, etc. I WISH my ex would do this, I was never particularly close to anyone in his family (never lived close to them) and I do not talk about my personal life with them whatsoever, only about my son. MY DH's ex on the other hand lives close to his family, we do not. She has contact with MIL. I personally don't really care, as long as she doesn't bring her up to me. I don't want to here about her. And his family has always been good about this, lucky for me. I like having distance from my ex, his ex, and the in-laws!
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"
I think it just depends on the situation
I still talk to ex-mil because she has always been a good friend and confidant to me, but I would NEVER interfere with my ex or any gf he was seeing. I would not want anyone to feel the way I do in this F-ed up situation I landed myself in. My bd sees her grandma whenever she can and I let her of course. But that is it. I do not hang out for holidays or anything else. It is not my place anymore and that is fine with me.
If my dog died I certainly would NOT be calling ex and he was our dog. I would be careful of the sil too.
My dh was all worried about poor bm when she found out her s-dad was ill. Ugh. What did I get myself into...
Still keeping her hand in
Now that you know, don't confide in this SIL. It sounds like ex still hopes for a reconciliation??? I would just ignore it though, and try to be happy with your DH. I would not mention it to him, for now, just wait and see what happens.
"A lie told often enough becomes the truth." - Vladimir Lenin