Let me start with the wedding, it was perfect! One time SS showed his bad behavior during our reception and was immediately taken to BMs by BIL. That was great, after he left, all was well again and the rest of the night was smooth.

Now, for my issue with BM.. This woman continues to amaze me on how little she cares about skids! SD has hip problems, sometimes I think it's more of her craving attention than a medical condition, but I have seen her truly hurting and unable to walk. So, today I get a call from SD saying that she called her mother and she told SD that she was busy and unable to bring SD crutches so she could finish the day at school. BM goes on to say, call L4A since she's doing nothing and tell her to take a minute to go buy you crutches... Now, mind you, I have been through a LOT with skids and it hasn't been peachy keen. I always do what I can, when I can, for them NOT BM. So I sent BM a txt saying that I think if SD is this bad, she should be taken to the Dr to be checked out. (It's BM's week with skids, so she would have to be the one to take her) She refused and went on saying "If you don't care enough to help, then I'll just figure out something" WTF! I do more for these kids than their own mother!! I love them to death, yes, but on BM's week it never fails! I always get a call from SD telling me that BM told her to call me and TELL me to do something.. not ask, but TELL. I can not take it anymore! I've been the bigger person, stayed calm and collected, and have bitten my tongue millions of times. How do I deal with this woman?! I know the skids will eventually look back and appreciate everything I do for them, but the BM attitude has got to go..

Thanks for listening, I just need to vent, and come up with a way of dealing with this.