Stalker lady strikes again
We went grocery shopping last night. A couple hours after we got home, we get this email: "SS wants to know how your trip to (Grocery Store) was tonight. We saw you two all over the place. It upset SS badly."
??
First of all, if she had SS in a grocery store and they saw us there, why didn't she send him over to say hi to his Dad? Secondly, SS sees us together all the time. It's not like it's something new for him to see us together in public. We weren't even being all lovey-dovey or holding hands or anything. I think it didn't upset him at all, I think it upset HER to see us together. I think if he was upset at all it would have been because BM was making him follow us all over the store and watch us! And that's IF he was even there, which there's no way to know but BF suspects that he was probably at home anyway and she just said that to make us feel bad.
But I do have to look at the bright side - this is the second email that she's sent in a row that she hasn't called me a nasty name OR cussed either of us. Maybe she's growing up a tiny bit...
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Its probably her thats upset rather than SS. I would not respond to the email, but I would copy all communication from her just in case you need it later.
Yeah
She frequently puts words in SS's mouth...one time she told BF that SS wanted to know why BF "wouldn't come clean on the fact that we were shacking together." Uh...What 9 year old would say that? Besides the fact, he knew we were living together, he stayed the night with us on visitations all the time!
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
Hmm, I don't know
I think her just seeing me somewhere would be kinda pushing the boundaries of the RO. She didn't come up to us and I didn't even know she was there until she pointed it out to BF after the fact. I had thought of this myself but I think it's probably too watery to go anywhere with. However, it on top of everything else I have might build my case a little. I just don't want to look like I'm digging for everything I can get to use against her, you know? It's all about image in this town and if you look like you've done your best to keep things civil then the judge is more likely to rule in your favor, whereas BM has ruined her reputation by taking us to court over the stupidest things and now they're likely to never rule in her favor again here. She knows this too which is why she's beginning to file things in other counties and trying to get our judge recused.
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
That woman...
is OBSESSED. Who gives a flying fig if you went to the grocery store?!? I think she is the craziest woman I have ever heard of...seriously. I just don't understand how any person can be a mother and have THAT much time on their hands to follow you around the way she does. I have hard time fitting in a shower everyday let alone follow my ex around.
"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain."
That's what I've been saying all along!
And honestly she doesn't have that much time on her hands. Everything else in her life just takes the backseat to me and BF. According to SS she doesn't spend any time with him or do any quality family-time things with him ever. She's probably going to have to take incompletes in all of her courses again this semester because she's missed so many classes...and she's only about a semester away from getting her Master's degree.
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
I think that is
I think that is reprehensible that she said that SS was upset badly. First of all, it's terrible english and most of all it's a blatant form of PAS. Even IF SS was upset, which I doubt, the proper response from her would have been to assure SS that his father loves him always and that it was not a snub to him. Any lawyer, therapist, GAL or judge would tell you that.
Nice BM you have there.
I agree.
I personally don't think he was even upset at all. Like I said, he is with us together all the time so it's not a suprise for him to see us together. I can't see how he would feel snubbed when obviously she was sneaking around behind us following us and we had no idea they were there. I think if he was upset at all it was because she brought him into her psychotic stalker games yet again when all he wants to do is have fun and be a kid.
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
Certifiably crazy is what she sounds like...
What I don't get is where do these women find the time to care so much about what other people are doing at the expense of their own kids? They just need to cut the crap, period!
Even if they are the ones that ended the marriage with their ex, in this case your BF, it's as if they have an abuser's mentality: if I can't have him, then no one else can. If I couldn't be happy with him, then why should anyone else other than myself have the opportunity to be happy with him? And why should my ex have a chance to be happy with someone else? God forbid! It's like they are on a merry-go-round of self-absorbtion and they won't get off; it's all about them! They could care less about the kids even though they say, "it's about the kids". WTF? Um, not really. It reeks of PAS!
Hope everyone is having a good day in the meantime!