wow. this is an active site. can you educate me a bit on the abbreviations? what is DH? what is BM?

presently i am working on my own heart and thoughts to better deal with the life situation. i'm disappointed to realize that adults act like children and there is no controlling the situation. the best i can do is to try not to become angry or bitter. i've realized that anger and bitterness only hurts me...the other person loves it. kind of stupid but true. besides, the Ex is not worth the energy or time. i'd rather spend those moments wallowing in the new found love of my life and our marriage. sounds all good but it's not easy. i'm reading a book by Andy Stanley called "It Comes From Within". the book is great. i realize why the husband and Ex behave as they do and most important I realize that it's not even about me...it's about them. as long as i can keep my head about me when she's being a child toward me then i'll be okay. i'm very protective of my children and husband and his children so it's gonna be a struggle. you can mess with me but when you mess with my family all bets are off... know what I mean?