It's the small things that drive me crazy!!
I realize this is a minor thing, but I get so tired of THAT B*TCH poking into our lives when it is not necessary. I want as little contact from her / with her as humanly possible and it should ONLY concern the SD.
The BM took the SD 6yo (who has only met her grandfather 2, maybe 3 times) with her to her hometown for the BM's father's iminent death and subsequent funeral. When the father died yesterday afternoon, the BM immediately calls and leaves a message for my BF to tell him. Now I could understand if my BF had had a close relationship with the father, which he never had, or if the SD had a close relationship with her grandfather, which she didn't - she barely knew the man. And why did she call BF?? He could give a rat's *ss about the man, because of major problems that occurred due to him during BM & BF's marriage. AND the BM is remarried! You would think she would call her husband to cry on his shoulder, NOT my BF!!
Then SD calls BF last night when we were out, so BF called her back and the BM answers. She's like, did you get my message, kind of weepy, and I about wanted to gag. BF was reserved with her and just said yes, and please let me talk to SD, I'm returning her call.
I really try hard to ignore her, but this stuff just drives me looney.
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YEAH our BM did it last night too
BF called to tell her he would get the kids Friday instead of Wednes night she says ok then calls back and says "Can I ask you a question...." I hate it when she does that cause then they both get angry and by the end of this conversation she told him that he can NOT get them friday B/C of how he is talking to her. She is such a CHICKEN HEAD
I don't think that's necessarily a minor thing.
I mean, the marriage is over. BM must find someone else to bring her life's concerns to -- she must have family or friends, and, as you point out, a husband. Having BM call your husband just to pass the time, gossip, reminisce, or have a shoulder to cry on is way out of line. On the up side, your husband seems to have handled (or not handled it) just perfectly. Good luck.