I hate mondays not because it is the first work day of the week, but because SS comes back from visitation with BM. Most people drink on Fridays and on the weekend, I usually make myself a drink or have a glass of wine about 7pm every Monday, because that is when SS decides to tell us about his weekend at BM's. Now I know this Monday will be especially awful because BM said that we could have SS this weekend, so we made special plans around that and then she decided to pick SS up at school anyways on friday, and calls DH to tell him she changed her mind, no reason given she just decided she was not going to cooperate, DH was PO'd and said that was it for trying to be nice and being flexible with visitation from now on they just stick to the visitation schedule. Getting along usually works best for all because things come up people have special events that the kids need to attend, but if she can not be reasonable I guess we will just have to stick to the visitation schedule. Another problem that we are having is that SS keeps sneaking stuff out of this house over to BM's another topic to be discussed on this dreaded monday, maybe I will need 2 drinks wish me luck.