This is WHY I can't stand her! (biomom)
so spring break is coming up, 2 weeks. i ask biomom if we can keep ss for a whole week to spend more time w/him. she says she doesn't know and has all these excuses. when she wants to switch we okay it. what the **** is her problem? i don't understand why a mother will deny extra time to spend w/son's own father. we are so damn sick of her!
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Biomom's just don't get it!
They don't get it because they think it is all about them. If they keep your ss away she thinks she's hurting you. She doesn't realize that the child is the one that she is hurting. It's just another way for her to keep control over your lives.
wow-biomom
I always prided myself on the fact i try to put myself in the other persons shoes - but you gave me a new view on it and I can see in my situation where that might be the case in a nutshell.
You see I(just me myself and I ) bought my house from my now husband and his exwife. ( I had nothing to do with the divorce she is the one who cheated and decided to divorce while he was deployed) I lived for almost 3 years by myself until my now husband and i started dating (we worked together) and then we got married- so i guess it would be hard for the the biomom to come and drop off the kids and pick them up if the house was once hers. To see all the things we accomplished together- guess that is why she is giving us such a hard time with the kids saying they do not like me and they will never come back to the house and she won't make them. Umm is this about the kids or her???
Thank you
Bio Mom, that is the first time I have seen that post.
Lovers do not finally meet somewhere, they were with each other all along.
And it really did touch my heart. As a biomom myself and a stepmom, it really hit home with me. In my first year with my dh I really tried to start an amicable relationship with his ex, as I did try to look at it from her perspective(being a bm too) but she wasnt and to this day will not ever let that happen. Though I get very frustrated at bm's actions and words, I hold no personal animosity towards her regarding me, but I do hold her accountable for the pain she has brought on my dh and especially my ss. No matter how much I try to put myself in her shoes, I will never understand how a mother can hurt/harm her children because of her anger issues.