She makes my head hurt!

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I swear, the dumb things SheSloth does and says often makes my head hurt!!!

SheSloth tried to "go to a car show" with a guy friend of hers. She asked DH last night after the football game...so this was like 11 pm. DH finally told her a final "no" after SheSloth tried to negotiate for an hour!! The guy was going to pick her up around 9 am today, and bring her home around 10 pm!! However, the car show ends at 2 pm!!! There was something about some party or something after. SheSloth really thinks at 15 she should be allowed to just go all day with some guy (who she claims is not a boyfriend) that DH doesn't know!

During the whole conversation, the subject of SheSloth's sty of a room came up. She tried to use that as a negotiation point to go with the guy friend..."I'll get up really early to do laundry...can do a couple of loads before I go." I piped up..."Um...no...I'm sleeping in until 8, and you will NOT use the laundry room tonight or before I get up!" She tried to claim she could be quiet...hello! The wall the washer and dryer are on is the same as my bedroom, and both machines can be heard a clearly in my room. Not to mention...I don't negotiate! No laundry gets done in this house while I'm trying to sleep....period!

Luckily, DH is still annoyed from a long week of work! Not only can't she go with the guy friend, the sty of the room needs to be cleaned....today!!! He told her, "I've been telling you for weeks now! You always have some excuse...going to BM's, this friend over, that friend over, gotta be here or there. You aren't leaving this house until this room is clean, and ALL laundry is done AND put away!!! And don't bother asking if anyone can come over!" To drive his point home even more, DH got up with me at 8 am today, and then promptly made SheSloth get out of bed!

So...SheSloth has been working on her room supposedly all morning! You know how that goes...haven't seen her room yet. I'm in the kitchen putting dinner in the crockpot for later, and prepping my lunches for the next week. SheSloth is hovering around...which drives me insane. Just 2 minutes before, she walked back to her room with a basket of washed clothes, dumped it, and brought the basket back out! Tired if her hovering, I look at her, "Don't you have a room to clean?" "It IS clean!" (I'm sure this is BS, as I've seen no trash come out of the room, and there was tons in there last night during the whole laundry discussion) "Well, I know there is no way you put away the clothes you just took in there!" "I'm waiting until all my laundry is done to put it away!" (Note...that was just load 1...there is still a load in the washer AND the dryer...both high capacity) I could feel a pain in my head when she said that, thinking "No wonder the clothes NEVER get put away! By the time she gets done washing, she has this mountain...and we know how easy she gets overwhelmed!" I sent her away to put the clothes away...more that I just wanted her away from me!

Ugh! And now she is asking if

Ugh! And now she is asking if the emo friend can spend the night and go to church with us tomorrow! Being a person who is not going to deny anyone from going to church if they really want to (you never know if God needs to get a particular message to a particular person a particular way), I made two strict stipulations. 1) The girl MUST bring money for Starbucks in the morning and lunch after church! I am tired if SheSloth inviting people and expecting we are paying for the day! 2) Lights out AND silence at 10 pm...no ands, ifs, or buts! I'm not eating for two teen girls dragging to get ready for church because they were up all hours, and thus being noisy and keeping me awake all hours! I made sure to stress these with both SheSloth and DH there together. DH did not object, and I expect him to follow through! If not, will be the last friend SheSloth invites!

Oh gosh, emo you say? Also

Oh gosh, emo you say? Also stipulate that she be dressed appropriately!!!

Sad thing is, she will

Sad thing is, she will probably be more appropriately dressed than SheSloth!!! Girl is rather thin...usually does the skinny jeans, plaid shirt over t-shirt, and combo boots thing...never has anything low cut or mid drift all the times I've seen her.

DH is in rare form today, and I'm loving it!!! We had to go rescue MIL who had a dead battery. She was stuck at Chick-Fil-A which got me craving chicken...so we decide to go ahead and get food, and the chili I made today we will eat for lunch after church! Solves one problem...muahahaha! SheSloth gets her food and starts heading into the TV room to her usual spot on the couch. DH stops her, "Look, a table! I think you will love sitting at the table!" (referring to the kitchen table) SheSloth has a puzzled look and asks why she can't eat in the TV room with us. DH says he is tired of her hiding her trash in the corner by the couch and it sits there for 2 weeks!!! Again, I was sitting there laughing evilly in my head!

Let's see if DH is still on a

Let's see if DH is still on a roll!

Are lunch at home today after church...the chili I made yesterday. Seeing as it was healthy, SheSloth put like half a bag of cheese on the 6-bites she served herself. Okay...wasn't half a bag, but as much cheese as she had on it, one may have asked her if she wanted some chili with her cheese. Needless to say, this left the bowl in a state where there is no way in hell our dishwasher can clean it. I went to put my bowl in the dishwasher and found hers there still all cheesy! I took it out, pointed out to SheSloth (in front of her friend) that there was no way the dishwasher will clean that bowl, put it on the counter and walked away! DH was standing right there. The bowl is still there, as well as the friend's bowl in the sink. SheSloth knows that when you have friends over, it is your responsibility to police your friend's dishes. We shall see if DH gets on to her about it, or if he just caves and does all of the dishes for her.

I wouldn't let her have a

I wouldn't let her have a friend over. Esp on a weekend. Esp during your church time. Sure, it's a good thing to have emo girl go to church, but that is YOUR time. You certainly don't need to be entertaining any of SheSloth's friends on the weekend until she straightens up her act.

This past summer 2014 SD19 yelled at me that I never let her boyfriend come over. I don't remember her ever asking this past summer, but that's because she knew better. In Summer 2013.....BF's car was out front 4-5 days out of the week when I got home from work. I told DH that SD19 (17 & 18 then) had totally taken advantage of the situation. I told DH no boys over when we weren't around, it was rude to YSD and to me. Our home is our private place. SD19 tried to say that this was her home, too. This house will never be your home until you start contributing to the greater good around here. And as long as I have diabetes and chronic fibromyalgia pain, AND I bring a paycheck home? This is MY HOUSE. }:)

~ Moon

Well, DH made SheSloth get up

Well, DH made SheSloth get up and clean those dishes! I took a peek at her room when letting the dogs out this morning...looks the same as it did before Saturday. So, she did some laundry, but that is about it. Guess that means all the clothes laying around are clean now rather than dirty. DH didn't bother to check her room, but at least he has been on her about the public areas.

You should FedEx some of the

You should FedEx some of the clothing to TGIHB for her Hoochie Mamma store! LOL

LOL @ Bark and

LOL @ Bark and TGIHB!

SheSloth is in her room sleeping. She texted DH crying sick, so he went to go get her. I haven't actually seen her, so hard to tell if she is actually sick or not...just hope the girl feels better tomorrow, because I don't want to deal with her at home all day! If she is...it's going to be stay confined to your room...no laying around watching TV!

Gosh, maybe she wasn't

Gosh, maybe she wasn't feeling well because she actually had to DO something around the house? }:) It must have been ALL of that laundry. I'm sure it tired her out. I can only imagine how bad it could have been if she had actually put ALL of that CLEAN laundry away.

The poor, poor thing. }:) }:) }:) }:)

~ Moon

ROFLMAO! Surprised it wasn't

ROFLMAO! Surprised it wasn't a "Ferris Buller" experience...not the whole movie...just all the Save Ferris stuff around town and everyone acting like he was dying!

And it must have tired her out...she was asleep all day after DH brought her home. I could only imagine if she had to clean the whole house...she'd be asleep for a week! Maybe even a month!!!

Speaking of donation walls...

SheSloth put up her GoFundMe page for that camp she wants to go to. She was all gungho about it for like 2 days, and she hasn't bothered to touch it or post the link in weeks now! Guess she doesn't want to go all that bad! She just thinks the money is going to materialize and she will go, I guess. She doesn't understand that you can't just put something out there and expect it work itself...you have to go work it!

Work ethic and effort!!!

Work ethic and effort!!! Entitlement minions don't comprehend these concepts.

Well, I guess she will find

Well, I guess she will find out when the time comes and she asks for her tryout fee, and she gets a fat, "So, how much have you raised fund raising?" Sorry, but if she isn't making any real effort for the camp fee, I'm surely not finding the $150 fee to try out! Not that I think she will make it anyway, which would make spending the $150 to try out even more disturbing to me. I've looked up the camp...the people they have in their guard are amazing! Definitely best of the best. SheSloth may be okay at rifle on her squad, but seriously, I don't think anyone on her squad could even compete with the folks they pick for their guard. If any of you know what DCI is, the purpose of the camp is to pull together something like an all-star band to compete in DCI. SheSloth couldn't even make officer of her own guard!