I need some input. We picked up the kids from BM yesterday she made a damn scene, as usual. She's prepping to go back to court so she's pulling out everything. She was acting calm and videoing us for a while but I guess that got old because all she'd get was literally him putting the kids into the car or letting them out. No talking, etc.

She started off with telling him to ask the oldest who is 7 why she doesn't want to come to the house then lead it into telling him my son who is 4 needs to keep his hands of "THEIR" girls inappropriately. That he needs to protect them and I'm only a girlfriend.

First off.. I'm his WIFE and not just a girlfriend. Secondly I assume what she is referring to happened over 6 months ago. SD7 and DS4 were caught in his bed under the covers with their clothes on. We made rules to stay out of the beds unless you're going to bed for the night, etc. The last straw was SD7 constantly requesting to "play family" and we caught the two kissing on the lips while swimming. We've banned that game and taken other precautions.

I'm pissed off because SD7 is twice the age and size of my son but yet is playing the victim. They are BOTH at fault. She had to have went and told her Mom recently because otherwise how would she know? DH tried to bring it up to BM at the time but she wasn't having it. He asked SD7 a couple of questions but didn't really address it. I feel like he should bring up how serious sexual stuff is and accusing someone else of. I feel like if my son was older it would be a lot more serious.