I have this bitterness daily I want to get over but cant. My husbands ex, mother of his 2 children is the greediest person I've ever met. When my husband had multiple surgeries and multiple er visits with extensive painful physical therapy, all she cared about was where was the money going to come from for her. She's told us she gets 8k a year in taxes since her job is mostly under the table. She gets another 10k a year from my husband who works his ass off w ot to help w our bills as well. The only thing I do give her is that she works a few jobs herself. She is remarried within 6 months of them splitting up several years back. The kids recently got braces and I bet that argument will come up soon. It's just one expense after the next. I know kids are not cheap, I'm not saying my husband shouldn't work his ass off for his kids, but the way she spends on herself and waits for all other family to provide all the kids needs when she splurges on herself and fancy vacations without kids mind you just makes me nuts. Idk why lately I feel this constant worry that she will go back to court over and over again for every last penny until they r grown. She is good and civil w us now and has not brought up extra expenses in a very very long time but maybe that's why I worry. She hasn't cared in the past if we have nothing so why wouldn't something suddenly change? Sometimes this whole subject makes me feel resentful towards his kids, is that wrong? It wasn't always like this with the money only in the last 2 years. I just wish I could stop dwelling on it almost every day. The worry and fear of her greed , which she has complete control over.