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***Emergency*** Guidance needed ASAP, Emotional Abuse

drsamy's picture

I am searching online because we can't get into see the attorney until tomorrow. My brain is reeling and I'm hoping for some guidance.

I have 3 step daughters. We have long suspected at least emotional abuse from the Mother. Last visit the middle child confided in me and more than hinted at the abuse. Yesterday, the youngest child came to me and spilled her guts. It's really bad. The older two are adopted and treated like Cinderella. The youngest is biological and is subjected to the screaming at the older two, "for every little thing". My life is really hard, this tiny innocent 7 year old tells ME. She told of having to hide from the screaming or running outside to avoid it. She confessed many things and her feelings about them.

The two adopted kids were abused from infancy, meth babies, and have slight developmental issues.

I used to be friends with the mother (long story). I have witnessed her physically abuse the eldest child while calling her an F-Ing retard. (6 years ago) I know what this woman is capable of.

The youngest told me yesterday, "My mom doesn't really mean to hurt them, she is just afraid they will hurt her."

WHAT DO I DO RIGHT NOW??????? We are prepared to spend whatever it takes to get custody, but what about RIGHT NOW? We have to send the girls back to her this evening and it's utterly heartbreaking.

ANY AND ALL advise is greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Disneyfan's picture

What did you do six years ago when you saw your friend abusing her child?

If you didn't call CPS then, it seems mighty strange that you are ready to call now that your are in a relationship with your former friend's exhusband.

WTF...REALLY's picture

This is what I was wondering as well.

And emotional abuse is hard to prove. Does the dad have 50/50 custody?

Disneyfan's picture

CREW????

Since the OP posted this then disappeared, would it be safe to assume it's a crew?