Ok my story I married man with 3 kids from another marriage they have been trouble on and off I am raising a toddler from my husband and I we moved away out of state 2 years ago now we've came back Now that I've had my son (my husband and I had split up and he went one state and I went to another state we got back together for my baby)I decided instead of moving to Tennessee where I wanted to go I came back up here to Illinois so my husband could help finish raising his kids the oldest is 18 the middle child is 16 and the youngest is 10 the oldest is a troublemaker she asked us just last week if she could get on our cell phone plan and have a separate bill mailed to her address which would be where her mother was at so that means that they can keep tabs on who we call on our cell phone plan together she's came to our church and trying to cause issues so I can't feel safe at church I'm not going to feel safe anywhere she's self absorbed she's trying to sit there and do her own thing but at the same time since she's really not working right now she's trying to always come over to our house somehow or interfere with other things I have going on during the day I just moved here two weeks ago I'm trying to get things in order with my health care for my baby and I,get stuff unpacked & I feel like someone's got their head up my rear end 24 7,everytime she comes around she's personally attacking me with her words in a derogatory way,she has caused a lot more issues than that but I will choose not to bring them all up at this moment.