Today was a halloween party at SD's school. We let her have her costume for the week so she would be wearing it when her dad picked her up. She had a completely different costume that was bought for her. She lost the costume we gave her in 5 days. Not sure what really went on there... Her BM does have a picture posted on Facebook of her wearing it that was put up on Thursday. Of course I blamed her BM; did she not like it or really loose it because of being disorganized, etc.
My BF got upset at me since I was blaming the BM and cause him to think ill of her all the time. He had already talked with his daughter about her loosing the costume but I had not known that. If she was my daughter, I might have considered not letting her go trick or treating at all depending on her response. However, I do not know what her response was. He wants to keep the peace as much as possible which I get so BM doesn't try anything reckless on us. On the other side he has been telling me that I should be able to express my feelings about our SD which does unfortunately involve the BM.