Does anyone out there have any suggestions on disengaging without having to be run out of my house? I mean I'm okay with running errands and finding stuff to do on weekends, but on a weekday night when I don't feel like leaving the house, I don't want to just hole myself up in my room... then I feel like skids win! Taking over the house! Plus if I keep my new 5 month old with me, SS10 will constantly be coming in asking questions and telling me stories about moms friend who just had a baby, and my mom's bf.. blah blah blah... Thank goodness SS15 usually has enough homework to keep him quiet for awhile.

Maybe I can convince DH to tell him he has to find something to do in his room...?
(Btw they are with us W/Th and every other weekend)