Pushing for visitation. Again.
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BM finally answered the phone when the visitation facilitator called. Now all of a sudden BM can't find her copy of the CO.
BM says she isn't sure that visitations are supposed to happen at the visitation center and not at the DHS building in town. She's just stalling!
I don't know what to do, do we file the motion to enforce the visitations, or do we keep that in our back pocket for a little bit?
We are frustrated as Hell and not sure what to do.
That's a good thought Tog.
That's a good thought Tog. I'll let FDH know.
She's missed every visitation
She's missed every visitation date ever. That's why I am pushing so hard for the courts to recognize this. She has gone against everything written in the CO. Obviously, FDH loves and wants to see his kids.
When she finagled an ex parte hearing and basically lied to the courts with her lawyer and dropped the custody down from FDH having full custody to supervised, after he had been raising those boys b himself for over ten years. For more explanations read my blogs?
We want this bitch nailed to a wall. She has 5 kids, all different father's except for my two SSs. They oldest is 14 and the entire family of 7 people live in a two bedroom house.
They drink,smoke, the house is disgustingly dirty, the boys have no privacy in any way. The oldest is the one cleaning, cooking and cleaning for all the younger kids. It's not fair to him. It's just not.
And what Tog said.
And what Tog said.
Fdh asked her (since she had
Fdh asked her (since she had rofr), to watch the kids while he was going out of town to take care of his father's farm while the man was recovering from bypass surgery. Fdh was gone three weeks and she filed ex parte abandonment. That's the short version.
He had full custody, she did actually kidnap the oldest, missing and exploited children notice and everything about 2 years before this ex parte hearing. She was charged with felony child kidnapping.
So thE, the situation is crazy.
Cs is roughly $800 a month.
Cs is roughly $800 a month. He's paid it faithfully, on time, every month for the last three years, barring the month or so he was on unemployment.
Do you wait? Oh hell no.
Do you wait? Oh hell no. Bare her idiot ass now and keep shredding it until she either steps up and complies or you make her go away.
I have no tolerance for this bullshit. My Skid's Sperm Clan played this game for 17+ years. They never read the CO, always claimed they could not get a copy of it, etc, etc, etc.... We kept a copy of the CO readily available in our home office, at my brides office, and at my office along with copies of the supplemental county rules and state regs. When the Sperm Clan played stupid we beat the shit out them with rolled up copies of the CO and other docs and when necessary we shredded their idiot asses in court.
You can't fix stupid and you can't reason with crazy but you can beat it into submission with every available tool and facts. The CO et. al. are the best tools for pummeling the opposition.
Use them and tolerate no bullshit.
Most of all ... have fun. }:)
In California its established
In California its established precedence that if a party is in the courtroom when the judge states his judgment they are fully aware of the judgment. They don't even have to be served a copy of the CO although they routinely are and its obviously a good idea.
If she is in violation of CO then you file a motion to find her in criminal contempt.