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Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Sun, 06/15/2014 - 10:10am

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OMG - ONE HOUR is all he asks! FDH wants to go to church and SD is giving him a hard time about it. Can you make ONE DAY, if not just one hour, about somebody else and not about what YOU want!?

Ugh, I know she's only ten, but this is the epitome of entitlement!

Now they're both mad at me for reminding her that it's Father's Day, and I'll have to watch them be all lovey dovey while I'm the bad guy.

Some days this really sucks!...Just had to vent.

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Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Sun, 06/15/2014 - 10:22am

You're too funny!

I don't go to church, this is something that FDH wanted to do with SD.

If I weren't cooking for my dad and SM, I probably would make myself scarce today!

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Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Sun, 06/15/2014 - 10:32am

exorcisma Biggrin

They went, and she took a book along to read, so unfortunately she won't learn anything about selfishness etc. That WOULD NOT have been allowed when I was young. It's kinda like your slapping Jesus in the face!

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Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Sun, 06/15/2014 - 10:39am

If the pastor was talking about something that we couldn't understand, my mom would give us some paper and a pencil to doodle on during that time, but we didn't completely engross ourselves in a book!

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Submitted by SugarSpice on Sun, 06/15/2014 - 10:31am

when a man is used to letting himself get whipped by his daughter and bm, it comes natutally.

vent away. we can relate.

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Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Sun, 06/15/2014 - 10:33am

Absolutely.

Thanks, I would probably be banging my head against the wall right now if it weren't for this place. Sad

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Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Sun, 06/15/2014 - 10:42am

You're absolutely right, and I regretted saying anything as soon as it flew out of my mouth. This kind of stuff is so difficult to ignore, it's like, SOMEBODY say SOMETHING to make this kid understand that not everything is ALWAYS about what YOU want!

I'll have to keep a ball-gag (?) handy for next time!

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Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Sun, 06/15/2014 - 1:44pm

'An easy target' is right! It just sucks when you feel like you're trying to help, and then you just get shit on...better not to say anything at all. I'll have to go buy a ball-gag since I don't already have one (I'm not THAT kinky).

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Submitted by wth was I thinking on Mon, 06/16/2014 - 10:45am

A lesson I learned last night. I am no longer going to voice anything when I see even the most blatantly disrespectful behavior towards him, because he will always defend them, and take it out on me. No more.

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Submitted by wth was I thinking on Mon, 06/16/2014 - 11:13am

Flip side of that is you tend to lose respect for your DH, seeing him allowing himself to be treated like shit. I feel like there is no winning in this. Sad

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Submitted by toywas on Mon, 06/16/2014 - 11:21am

Only 1 golden egg sent a Father's Day card and only 2 golden eggs called. What happened to the other 3 wonderful kids? Nothing. He was looking forward to going to work today and check his email; he's really doing to be disappointed since I got to work before he did.

Last night DH said "do you know what I didn't get on my birthday (which was 2 weeks ago)? So foot in mouth I said "birthday cards and gifts from your kids?" Truthfully, I spoke without thinking but I did not apologize - it was the truth and I stated the obvious. DH was quiet for about 5 minutes then said "No a call from a childhood friend (it's been a tradition for over 30 years."

Oh well!