that's fucked up.

Does she exhibit other odd or disturbing behavior?

That is seriously disturbing.

I would let her know that what she's saying is SICK! The first time she said that...I would have been totally astounded...the second time, I'd let her know that little girls who say things like that end up in hospitals with padded walls, no toys, no TV's, and no mommy or daddy to come and see her. Scare the piss out of her. Kids may push boundaries and say foul things, but I let them know what's acceptable and what's not. Talking about how you would kill a baby is unacceptable.

Not normal. I would no doubt tell your DH and if he does nothing, I would call the school or CPS or something else. I don't care if BM is feeding her this or not, if she is, she is harming that kid…if she's not, the kid is already a psycho.

I'm with Scubed. Most of th e Crews are just ridiculous. This one is sick and hits close to home.

A six year old boy and seven year old girl were stabbed in an elevator here (Brooklyn) on Sunday. The little boy died and the girl is still in the hospital. An 18 year old girl was also stabbed to death in the same area last Friday. The police believe the same man is responsible for both attacks. I work in the area where at attacks occured. My students (first grade) are really having a hard time dealing with this.

I agree a inexperienced person doesn't know for sure and is asking for help.

The mother suffered from PPD. Paranoid personality disorder (PPD) is one of a group of conditions called "Cluster A" personality disorders which involve odd or eccentric ways of thinking. People with PPD also suffer from paranoia, an unrelenting mistrust and suspicion of others, even when there is no reason to be suspicious.

The kid is obviously strange. I agree that Daddy, not you although you can be present, should sit the kid down and in strong language explain why the threat is unacceptable and scares people. Then if it continues consider psychiatric intervention.

Do I understand that this kid has siblings, actually step-siblings and I'm guessing from two other women? Girl you need to seriously reconsider having kids. He's a ex for good reasons and two women have already agreed he's a non-keeper and threw him back. You really should move out of this and find a guy without children. You simply don't need to volunteer for this. No way.

I don't think what she said is normal AT ALL and her parents need to address this asap. It's normal when two people are joking around pretending to fight and one says something like, "I'm gonna kill you!" Haha. You can tell it's a joke. It's not normal to describe stabbing and drowning and infant to see how they die. That is MORBID. Most little kids don't understand death, but on the other hand, most little kids don't fantasize or even talk about committing acts of cruelty. I would never have a child with her in he picture.