BM who abandoned her child.

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Okay guys, I am new to this and need some advice.
My husband and me got together during a pregnancy with his BM that he had NO IDEA about. She has five children and three baby daddies. The split in December....she never told him she had just concieved his child...we started dating in August and in November she drops the bomb on him that he has a child that he doesnt know about. Not only he doesnt know about him, but she goes on to tell us that she didnt tell anyone about her pregnancy, gave birth to him at home and abandoned him at an urgent care down the street in the parking lot...in a box. Not to mention a week after giving birth to my husbands child that nobody knew she was even pregnant with...she concived ANOTHER child with ANOTHER MAN.

TO MAKE THINGS WORSE, since then we got married and have been through court, trials and all other nonsense...she gets visits once a month and doesnt even show up half of the time. I am the only mommy that he knows and she continues to harass us and try and do things or say things that come between our marriage. Sometimes I am feeling like I am living an absolute hell because of her and what she has done to (my) son.

Our story is all over the news of what this psycho did to this baby who we have custody of. She every once in a while wants to play "good mommy" role and beats on our door wanting to see him...im so tired of it and sick of it. My husnand lets her act this way and I have found out he has even told her times when we argue! I am fed up!!!!

I need advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!

She is the most manipulative

She is the most manipulative woman I have ever met in my life.
She hid her 5th child from CPS, and everyone.....just because CPS told her they would take any child away from her that she birthed during this case. My son (the abandoned baby) has a sister that is EXACTLY 9 months younger. My husband had to get a DNA test to even prove that he was my sons bio father because she claims she had 3 other potential fathers....its TERRIBLE!
I am SOOOO thankful that its going to be trial by jury!!!

Although there are abandoned

Although there are abandoned babies left in parking lots there is nothing on the Internet about one abandoned in the parking lot of a urgent care clinic.

Perhaps you can give us a link to the newspapers stories which are reproduced on the Internet.

That is it..........there is

That is it..........there is more articles though that have more information on it.
That is my daily struggle that I deal with....It is so overwhelming

Google: abandoned baby in

Google: abandoned baby in pasadena tx it happened on Sept of 2012.
That is my husbands child, CPS got involved and we have trial the second of this July for permanent orders for the child.
The new baby went through countless CPS investigations, shes used a false last name for it for 6 months so CPS does not detect her having another child. They are contemplating putting child abandonment charges on her.

I couldnt make this up even if I wanted too....its a living hell.
I would say her name on here but I do not know if I can get in trouble for that.

Yes, he calls ME mommy...im

Yes, he calls ME mommy...im the only mother hes ever known and now i have his crazy bio mom to deal with....

I would LOVE to see what your

I would LOVE to see what your pulling up. We cannot find what your finding by the way. Where did you see her name and the case information? She's so manipulating and deceiving we don't even look anymore online.
This is my daily life, living in hell because of what she's done :/ I hope it all ends one day.

http://www.hcdistrictclerk.co

http://www.hcdistrictclerk.com/Edocs/Public/search.aspx

You can pull up the courts for 311th docket like you mentioned or type your husband/psychopathmom's name - you can also look up criminal cases like I do periodically -- it is showing last Nov the psycho's attorney filed for temp restraining order but doesn't show the results as most documents are hidden unless requested I checked as with criminal if you have an account you can see probation orders, etc.

When you look for her name if you look for updates on the article it shows she came forward saying that was her child in a follow-up article which says her name.

I dont know, I am so

I dont know, I am so frustrated with finding out that he told her that me an him were arguing last time he saw her without me around...I feel like I have stuck my head out and mothered this child and put my all in all of this mess to be talked about like that with his ex just isnt fair.

I totally agree, and no

I totally agree, and no appologies needed....I normally have people in disbelief with my story! LOL

We are in the 311th court in

We are in the 311th court in Harris county....its an open trial and open record. Feel free to look it up in the public records. My husbands name is Rudy............you think your overwhelmed...I deal with this everyday of my life.

If she did or is, that is

If she did or is, that is news too us lol.
She has tried all kinds of things. The CPS literally handed us the baby as soon as they found out that my husband was the father and I was his wife...she is coniving and crazy

As of now this crazy woman is

As of now this crazy woman is getting 6 hours of UNSUPERVISED visits with him every 1, 3rd and 5th Sunday of this month. Next month we transition to Saturdays and Sundays and the judges "goal" is to establish and work our way up to her having standard visitations starting in July. Texas judges favor a mother even when their is blood on the floor. It's ridiculous!!!!

I live N of Houston and

I live N of Houston and remember seeing this on the news one evening and my heart dropped. That poor child and good for you for stepping up but you need to demand boundaries with your husband or leave. I know you care for the child but it is not yours and not worth all the potential stress that will lead to health issues.

My own family tells me this

My own family tells me this daily lately but that boy is mine. He's my heart and soul and I feel like my heart would be ripped out of my chest if I left. Being a step parent is hard but it's so rewarding when you don't have a crazy like her.

After I posted that I started

After I posted that I started thiking but didn't have my phone or laptop handy to post anything else. Like I said I live North of Houston so saw this one the news and remember my heart literally feeling broken hearing it. I commend you for standing by - though I stand by what I said in regards of making your husband deal with her and put the boundaries because I am a stepmom for the second time and frequently especially before I left my ex to find my DH I literally had panic attacks, high blood pressure etc, and now even with a psycho making sure that DH has boundaries an what goes on with SS in our house is the main thing I deal with, and even then I remember he is mainly DH's responsibility I no longer am on anxiety or blood pressure meds.

People on this site are a

People on this site are a trip.

My husband's ex left their kids with him. He has custody and always has. She is a convicted felon with multiple children by various men and went 7 years with no contact. I raised my stepsons and they are now both in college and well adjusted adults, responsible adults. The ex acted bat shit crazy in the beginning (think mid 1990's) and it did not end until we started calling the cops on her. I told my husband I would not live in fear of his ex and after she was arrested twice, and taken to court, she realized she was no match for us. You need to start calling the cops on her crazy ass EACH and EVERY time she acts up.