I'm a mother of two boys,13&10 and a SM of two girls,20&17. I've been married for ten years. My children are from a previous marriage but my H has taken on the responsibility of raising mine as his own bc their bio is worthless. SDs would visit about twice a month on payday. It has been obvious for years that SDs use my H for money. SDs have never likes me or my boy and always treated us horrible. About three months ago SD17 got herself into a heap of trouble..she lied to her BM and said she was pregnant (she never was) well BM grounded her and forbid her to continue to see the bf. About a month into the grounding and not seeing the bf SD17 called CPS on her BM and lied and said she was getting abused. I know this is a lie as BM is actually a good mother. SD17 only did this bc she thought if she said she was preg then she could move in w the bf. My H let SD17 move into our home three months ago. It's been total hell! My H let's SD17 do/say whatever she wants and continues to let her date bf. I can not tell SD what to do or chores that need done bc when I do she actually cries and tells my H I'm being mean. My H always takes her side no matter what she's done. My H will not acknowledge or validate my feelings. My H actually told me to pack up and leave bc I confronted SD17 about the lies she's told. I told SD17 that she needs to go back to her BM house and live bc she is making it unbearable to live in my house. H was furious that I confronted her. He will do whatever she wants even when we've previously discussed situations and agree upon things all SD has to do is say daddy and no matter what she gets her way. I am tired of always being undermined and treated like crap. I can't stand SD17 and I want her out of my house and I my told my H all of the things she does but H disregards everything I saw.