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I'm done with steptalk! Thanks guys

My4kidsmom's picture

I guess I'm not one of the popular girls here. I spent almost two hours last night typing and posting a situation that I a devestated over and about to end my marriage over and pretty much pleading for help understanding, and advice and just a few people bothered to respond. This isn't the first time either. I guess you have to post some crazy ass, unbelievable story to get a response.

bearcub25's picture

You got a few responses. I don't see where you responded back except to say the your DD wasn't living there bc of SD and they thing they are saints.

Did you have a talk with your DH?
Why is your DD not there and you Dh and SS?

I find the forum hard to navigate thru and can't go back and look at prior posts w/o searching the whole forum so try doing a blog.

I personally don't ever go on ST at home, only work. I don't want my DSO finding this site as it is my site.

Try a blog and you should get more responses during the week when others can post more freely or don't have their hands full with their families.

QueenBeau's picture

I never get responses at night? If I were you I'd wait a few hours.

I posted a blog last night & didn't get a response until this morning.

I wouldn't consider myself a 'popular girl' but people do care about me as far as I know.

morethanibargainedfor's picture

I've written a couple blogs that I either got no responses to or only a few. Not a big deal. Sometimes I'm not even looking for a response. Sometimes you just need to vent, ya know? Sometimes people can't comment because they just don't have any advice to give. Or like the other girls said, maybe people just didn't see your post. I also agree that forums are difficult to navigate.

Sorry you feel ignored, I hope you stick around. If not, then I wish you and your family the best of luck.

Sending love and prayers.

onthefence2's picture

You got limited responses because of the way your post was split up and followed up either late at night or the next morning. I think the final story was under a title that had nothing to do with it. I'm guessing most people gave up on trying to get the whole story. But you got responses. If other people agree with the responses, they likely won't add to it. Did you just not get the answer you were looking for?

Disneyfan's picture

THIS

I read the first two parts then went to look for the third but it wasn't there.

My4kidsmom's picture

I had to post part 3 as a comment in part 2 because it wouldn't let me post it anywhere else.

My4kidsmom's picture

I'm sorry , just going through a crisis right now and feel totally alone and broken. Not anyone fault here.

My4kidsmom's picture

Lol. I'm thinking a bottle of wine tonight sounds like a great plan! I have to hide it though when I drink (which is rarely) because my DH is a recovering alcoholic (2 months sober). I realize that hiding my drinking is one of the signs of alcoholism Lol but in this case it's justified because I'm hiding it FROM the alcoholic right!???