DH finally threw BM out when she had her 4th or 5th affair (can't remember exactly). She's only ever had one child (SD) thank god! But her home is a revolving door of men to this day. Total skank. But, don't forget, she's the VICTIM!!!

BM has my SD12 and now 6 month old from her on again/off again BF, and from what we've been told from her, her family and the baby daddy, she has had at least one miscarriage and 2 abortions in between the 2 kids. Although, I highly doubt the abortions. She was 18 when she got knocked up with SD12, DH begged her to get an abortion, she refused. Even though she was in no way financially, emotionally or in any way ready for this new baby, she again refused. AND she texted her BF when she was mad at him that she was aborting his baby and isn't he happy now, see what he has made her do, yada yada yada. He showed us the texts, it was amusing. We actually really like him. Other than his attraction to her stupid ass, he seems like a fairly intelligent, reasonable, nice guy.

BM had SD with DH and they stayed together until SD was 2-or 3 ish on and off. BM was prego with SS ( not actually DH's) When we met. The Bio dad was unknown until SS was maybe 2 i think. it was between 3 different guys. One deported, one guy i did know and did look alot like SS who had a GF and another guy (who had GF too) i or DH had never heard of before ( i guess he was older) after testing was done she found out that it was the older guy. I guess (im not sure) but she was going to try for child support (even though by this time we had taken SS in like our own every weekend.) Well She got spooked when he said if he had to pay support he was going for full custody and he had a pretty good case on her. After alot of BMs crazy i think the guy just stays away.

BM has SD7, by DH & her son, who is 5, by DH's ex best friend (SD's godfather, at that).

Oh, & he left her too. Abandoned the boy. Then came back, moved in, & dumped Bm again a year later.

My SS-21 is an only child for my DW and I. My DW had SS when she was 16 and the Sperm Idiot was 24. DW and I met when the Skid was 15mos and married a week before he turned 2yo.

The Sperm Idiot has 3 younger all also out of wedlock spawn with 2 more baby mamas (D17/S15/S13). The Sperm Idiot cried to his mommy and daddy to pay his CS for my SS and the youngest three Sperm Idiot spawn were dropped on Sperm Grandma and Sperm Grandpa's door step to raise without any help from the Sperm Idiot or the two other baby mamas.

BM1 has 4 kids with FDH and one with her DH (she's not crazy at all though! Woo) BM2 has 2 one with FDH and one from some random other dude. She's the psycho one. BM2 tried to trap FDH with SD. She knew he didn't want any more children but she stopped taking her birth control. Things deteriorated pretty quickly after she did that. She even admits it! Clearly she didn't learn that even when you have a baby (or 4) it doesn't mean happily ever after it just means ever after.

No wonder there are so many screwed up young kids !!!!
Who is your daddy,mommy,etc.???
Hmmm...well,it could be him or her or maybe him !!!!!!!

BM had an affair and ended up leaving DH for the man. She still talks to DH's mom thinking her convo's are private, we get a lot of dirt this way. She's apparently been trying to get pregnant for almost 2 years with her "FDH" and can't, her solution has been to try and convince SS that "FDH" is his real dad so they can have the picture perfect family. The latest news is that BM's "FDH" is planning on going away to school for a year, seems like a way for him to leave the relationship to me as we have three universities and 10 collages in our city. Poor SS will be all screwed up thinking his dad left him, meanwhile BM has been trying to wiggle her way back into a relationship with DH because she's realizing that she's going to be all on her own soon, ugh.

DH got BM pregnant while they were still in high school. They jointly agreed that she should have an abortion. 3 months later she is pregnant again with SS7. I don't think they knew what birth control was (dumbasses). They married because SS7 was on the way. The marriage lasted maybe a little over two years. They separated and before the divorce was finally she comes sniffing around again trying to get back together with DH. Turns out she was pregnant by another guy and wanted to pin it on DH. He didn't fall for it. She aborted the baby. DH and BM then decided to try to work out the marriage. He moved to another place to get a good job and then BM and SS7 would join him once he was established with a job, apartment, etc. He hadn't made it across the state line and she had reunited with her boyfriend from high school that was before DH (and quite a few other guys as well). DH proceeded with the divorce (and he had an excellent attorney. She gave up rights to a lot of stuff she regrets now). BM and her boyfriend, now husband, married lickety-split and she was pregnant again with SS7's half sister who is 4. About a year later BM is pregnant AGAIN but had a miscarriage. About 3 minutes later BM is pregnant AGAIN and had SS7's half brother who is 2.

I think I covered all of the pregancies. There might be one or two I forgot. Thank goodness she had her tubes tied! I love how she tells people that her and her current husband have been together for 13 years. I just chuckle to myself because anyone with half a brain will figure out it couldn't be 13 years because somewhere in there she was married and had a kid with someone else.

DH and I used to have a bet on how many baby daddies she would have because there was no way in hell her current husband would be able to handle her level of crazy for long. They are still together. We have now decided that he is a pussy that won't stand up to her. I've been a witness to how she is towards her husband and kids when she doesn't think anyone is paying attention. I feel sorry for the guy and the kids. You know the type - takes the little ones to an event without a diaper bag, bottle, etc. And then gets exasperated because the kids need something.

We have 2 BMs. SD5 came out of a 5 year high school+ relationship (BM and SO were teens when she was conceived). SD3 came out of a "friends with benefits" type situation with BM1's best friend. BM2 already had a kid with SO's ex best friend, who also has another kid with BM2's other best friend. It's an awesome situation, let me tell you. I think it's a lot easier to stay away from BM drama and move on with your lives when you aren't in a small town where everyone associates with everyone. BM2 is a complete sociopath who tries to ruin my life as much as SO's, but ironically, I'm best friends with her brother and he gets along really well with my SO, too. I don't expect anyone to have any sympathy or understanding for this kind of mess lol

Another jacked up thing about my SS's Sperm Clan .... Sperm Grandma paid the Sperm Idiots CS obligation for my SS and also pays CS to baby mama #2 for Spawn#2 and ... raised Spawn #2 in the home she and Sperm Grandpa live in. Baby mama#2 says when the CS stops she collects Spawn#2.

Spawn #3 and #4 are also raised by Sperm Grandma and Sperm Grandpa with no CS paid by baby mama#3 and with no financial help from the Sperm Idiot.

DH has two sons.

No, wait. One isn't his.

OK, he has ONE son, 14.

The other one actually belongs to SF, who she was cheating on DH with all these years, it turns out.

Maybe.

Or it could be BM's other "good friend" who's the father. She hasn't "ruled him out."

*shrugs*

Who the hell knows?

OMG, This shit is funny!

Our BM is a lesbian and married the maid of honor from her wedding with DH. Maid of honor was her previous lover and she left that life style to please her parents. Talk about messed up. Her whole family hid her drug addition and lesbian past from DH. He found out 7 years and 2 kids later.

By the way, she has much more issue with her sexuality than we do. We could care less, but she is obsessed with it.

Big Bird (she's 6 ft tall and almost as wide) has three PLANNED kids; the last one was to "save the marriage" (both the BM and daddykins are free ranging "coochie coo" type non-parents who can't say the word "no")

Guilty Daddy admitted that after OSS was born, he saw what a lousy stay-in-bed mom she was BUT continued to have two more PLANNED kids after the first one--they view children as dress up dolls and "trophies," fully deluding themselves that they produce the most attractive children--quite the opposite is true. Although they live less than 20 min away, all three have ben PASed out for over 4 1/2 yrs now. Haven't heard a peep from them shortly after Big Bird remarried Big Bucks "NEW" Daddy. Of course he won't adopt them as that would mean giving up 12K in CS a year.

One time, in an argument, I told Guilty Daddy that at least I had the good sense to STOP breeding after my first unplanned child with exH!!

OSS 17, SD 15, YSS 11--been paying CS for 10 yrs now with AT LEAST 10 more to go (good ol' golden uterus centric NYS)