So it has been about 2 weeks since I flipped on my boyfriends older son (age 21). I am not proud of the things I said. To summarize: I told him to f off, told him he was a loser, his mom is an alcoholic, and never to set foot in our home again. Ok, ok a little over the top, but I have been trying to ignore his rudeness for a long time. I guess I finally just snapped.

He would just walk in the house like he owns the place, not say hi to me or his father. He would leave doors open on purpose so my cats would get out, so we finally had to bolt the back door. His loud-mouth girlfriend has screamed at my dog and called her "dumb" while kicking at her. He would say "Bye Dad!" and act like I was not even there. He brought a friend around, introduced him to his father while I just sat there like a dummy. He would talk the most horrible things about everybody--"This one is fat. This one is stupid." He would swear at his father and act like he makes the rules. I ended up just hiding in the bedroom when he would come over.

So anyway I hate to admit it but is so nice and PEACEFUL in the house right now. I know it won't last forever, but it is really nice. The younger kid (age 19) who lives with us is not talking to me at all, and barely talking to his dad. He used to clean my car off for me when it snowed, but now I have to clean my own car off. I guess it is a small price to pay for a peaceful house. lol

I do feel bad though because I know my fiance misses his son and wants to see him. He is in a wheelchair so it is not like he can just drive over to see him whenever. I thought about offering to drive him over to his son's house, drop him off, and pick him up later. That is if his son will even talk to him. I know they have not been in much contact since that night, except for an occasional message on Facebook.