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husband and I were together for 5 years. married for 1 year. raised both kids for 5 years from almost newborn. after coming home to another women in my house. i have never been back. now he is trying to make me NEVER seeing the kids again part of our divorce decree. is there anything i can do about this. he is not primary custodial parent.
Those are not your kids. You
Those are not your kids. You do not have any rights to them.
Did you get along with their mother? If so, she may be willling to let you visit them.
The reality of the situation
The reality of the situation is that you could spend a fortune if the bio-mother refuses to let you see her kids and in the end you'd have a 99% and more chance of losing. Don't let an attorney tell you otherwise, s/he's probably late on his alimony payments and needs the money.
wow, no I wouldn't do
wow, no I wouldn't do anything that would affect my child in a harmful matter like keeping them away from someone who they considered a mother. its emotionally hard a child to loose a parent role in there lifeā¦ and BM approves and wants me in there lives. i think the word crazy is unacceptable..