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I jusr walked out of 12th year old girl bbgame because HE wont stop looking at BM

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 09/26/2013 - 7:15pm

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I caught him and he swore he was looking at the whole room not her. Then I see him looking two more times.
And I call him out. He rolls his eyes.

He then moves a seat forawrd on the bleachers in an
Unobstructed voew of BM.

AND I CAN SEE HIS EYES GOING BACK TOWARDS WHERE SHE IS SITTING WITH HER PARENTS!

I STOOD UP AND SAID I WAS "GOINF TO WAIT IN THE FUXKING CAR"

he didn't follow me....

Apparently BM'S new haircut was That God Damn Good Looking!

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 09/26/2013 - 7:25pm

Now he came out (between games) and asked if I was ok.
I told him I was not going to stay and watch him try to hide looking at her.
He said he wasn't even looking at her and asked if I wanted him to take me home and he would go bCk to tje game.
I said no ill just wait here.
He said again he was not looking at her.
I told him I could see his eyes.
He got pissy and shut the car door and went back into the game.

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 09/26/2013 - 7:38pm

... Huge big deep breath in.... And out comes all the air.....

Yes...it is...one and the same...

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Submitted by twoviewpoints on Thu, 09/26/2013 - 7:38pm

Seems like a strong reaction unless you have reason to believe there is really anything inappropriate behind the looks. Are you sure he wasn't just glancing over being curious? Not curious in a 'bad' way like 'oh BM sure is looking great', but more of a mild being nosy. I glanced at GS12's BM a few times at a football game the other afternoon, but it was mere nosy not real interest. She had stepdad with her and I hadn't seen him for quite a while. I was being nosy but beyond a glance I couldn't of cared less of what either BM or Stepdad where doing or their physical appearance. I'm not even sure Ii looked 'on purpose', I just looked over.

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 09/26/2013 - 7:41pm

I saw it at least 12 times in 60min .. Thats just what I SAW when I was not watching the game...

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 09/26/2013 - 7:45pm

And if it was just being nosey why not just say that?? Why keep denying it... The first time I saw it I said, "come on, you are being too obvious,... Is she doing something that interesting?"

And he denied from the begining and then started looking out of the corner of his eye without turning his head very much...

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 09/26/2013 - 8:10pm

No idea... But if he didn't care why would he look and lie about it???

I looked once to see her, waved at her parents (who HE and I are on good speaking terms with) and then we sat down to the right and down three rows from BM.

He practically broke his neck the first time when I said something about it... And that time I didn't mind,... I had looked out of curiosity too....

BUT TO KEEP LOOKING AND KEEP DENYING IT, JUST GOT FURTHER AND FURTHER UNDER MY SKIN,...

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 09/26/2013 - 8:13pm

And he also could not tell me WHAT IF NOT BM hw was looking at,...same direction every time, right at her

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Submitted by sbm014 on Fri, 09/27/2013 - 5:31pm

I would seriously do a major look at your relationship. From everything you have told us this guy is iffy. He tells you he is going to propose, he's possibly looking at BM. Please take a long hard look obviously his focus is not on you.

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Submitted by emotionaly beat up on Fri, 09/27/2013 - 5:47pm

You sat in the car and he let you. You my little one are acting like a fool, that is why he is treating you like one. Get some self esteem and self respect. You are accepting this treatment from him. He's hardly going to respect you for that is he.