Have felt this way for a while now..

Have given everything to this man.. everything for him and his kids.

This year we were granted full custody of the skids (boys 14 & 16)

This year, DH left his job making good money - to take a better job with more "opportunity" down the road.. uh, no.. he took it so he could screw off all day while the kids were in school and then in the summer hang out with them. He has literally made like 6-10 sales calls since January and it's a mystery to me how he is still employed...

This year, I was blindsided by the IRS.. I had a major paycut as well due to layoffs and am now making a lot less than I'm used to.. This caused me to owe a significant amount to the IRS.

So I did the responsible thing and have made payment arrangements..

Well.. the combination of both our paycuts combined with now having two teenage boys full time has hit us hard financially. We have put out a request for support through the courts regarding the boys.. but their biomom is trash and we aren't expecting much..

Three months ago, Dh says to me he "doesn't think we have enough to cover my IRS payment"... WTF? No.. we need to pay this. We fight about it and find a way to pay it.. then again the next month.. same issue/same fight..

DH has made sure his sons are signed up for basketball and football and the 16 year old goes to counseling at 60/session every week.. (did I mention we are in a pay to play district and sports cost anywhere from 300-500 per kid to play)...?

I owe the IRS.. and my portion of my daughters dental work (her father and I split the payments 50/50)...

Oh, yes.. I have a 12 year old daughter 50% of the time.. and I get support that goes into our checking account for "our" bills...

Except.. there are only his bills that get paid.. not mine.

Fed up. Taking it all back. My support will go towards me finding a place to live because I am done..

What "man" only looks out for him and his boys and leaves his wife and step daughter to fend for themselves financially...? Bastard.