Oh my - very funny SS13. DH has been gone all weekend, but came back this morning to look for his cell phone again (lost when he was drunk) and get some work equipment. He asked if he could call SS13 from the house phone. I said sure.

SS13 immediately starts up with the crap about me again, although DH made it clear that he isn't living here and that he wouldn't be living here again. Just a little background - I bought this house six months before DH moved in, putting $30,000 of my own pre-marriage money down on it, and have paid ALL mortgage payments since then. The judge has already awarded it to me as my separate property in the divorce agreement 9 months ago. DH has actually CHARGED me money to put in flooring and do other improvements to the house and has not even once, paid a utility bill or mortgage payment since he has lived her in the past two years. Even DH has no problem acknowledging this and that its my house and BM call's it "Redsonya's house".

I told DH in September when he came back that I would not allow BM's horrible nephew in my house again because I don't want him around DD4. He agreed to see him in BM's town. BM in the past has told us that she wouldn't allow the kids around me, has threatened restraining orders, and said horrible, horrible things to me. Once I told her myself that the nephew wasn't welcome in my home, she went crazy because she lost her babysitter.

SS13 started telling DH that as long as he was living here, it was his house too and that basically, SS13 and BM think that DH should be able to tell me that BM's horrible nephew CAN come over here for the weekend (next weekend), regardless of what I think. What the hell? I understand that SS13 probably assumes that DH and I will get back together, but the fact that BM thinks she can somehow control what goes on in MY house and will circumvent me so that she can have a babysitter and DEMAND that her messed up nephew come to my home is crazy. I am floored. All SS13 has succeeded in doing is ensuring that he will never step foot in this house again and anything fun that he assumes belongs to DH (the $900 laptop he uses, the flat screen TVs, bikes, tablets, etc) are NOT going with DH to his new bachelor pad. All of those items are mine and I might have felt bad and given DH a couple of them so SS13 could be entertained over there. Not anymore, I'd rather break them, then see them go to SS13. He can sit in his dad's empty apartment, which will probably be covered in liquor bottles and twiddle his thumbs on his vistation. My fun park (also known as MY HOUSE) is closed to that brat.