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Do you worry ur STEP TEEN will never leave the house?

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Submitted by Justrun on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 1:24pm

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My SD17 is so dependent on her Dad, She doesn't know this ..She doesn't know how to do that ...etc..
SD 11 shows to be more dependent, SD11 knows she wants to be a chef when she grows up , she wants to travel ..etc..SD is going to eat the world in one bite..However
SD 17 doesn't even what season we are on..or what she wants to do in life...

I worry we are going to be stuck with her for YEARS !!!!
I worry she may marry ..divorce (due to personality issues) and come back to live with us with her kids (granchildren)..LOL

I know it's not goo to think that far ahead but she is that irritable and clingy that I can't help to think that way.. :O

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Submitted by StickAFork on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 1:32pm

A couple of mine couldn't wait to leave... I'm not a fan of theirs. Smile
One I like... and she left about age 20.

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 1:53pm

I feel like mine is never gonna leave EVER, And 2 grandkids already live with us 3 and 1. yea What a slut, I hate my life right now

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 2:24pm

And it's awful, Crying kids all the time, She screams at them, she lays on the couch all day, lets her kids run wild, she's lazy as shit. FDH threatened to kick her out bc she was supposed to be in school so she hurried up and signed up for classes. Everyday I wonder why I come home from work, I'm not exaggerating, it's horrible. DH and I have been fighting and we are super stressed bc it's miserable at our house and she has no where else to go, so daddy takes care of everyone. Fuck. my. life.

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 2:26pm

Oh and besides her 1 night a week to do dishes she doesn't do SHIT! We fight and fight and DH just says he can't make her and he tells her to help. I'm honestly considering moving out for my own sanity, this could cost us my relationship Sad

Sorry venting a little!

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 4:19pm

I should, she is supposed too and just doesn't. I've printed her applications even and she never turned them in. I will justt pretend I'm her and do it myself!!!

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Submitted by round2 on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 3:33pm

You are not worrying about this too soon. Just this morning my FDH was cutting up SD8's waffles. I looked and him and said - seriously, she can cut up her own food. His response? I like doing it.

Fuck me sideways - all I could think was that she will graduate from high school, have zero ability to take care of herself and he will want her to live with us. Not.going.to.happen