SS9 whining that he misses his BM
50% of his 5 week summer visitation is over and lord has it gone slowly. It's a sad day when I prefer to stay at work until 7:30 every night and then go to the mall or a restaurant by myself until 9 so I can assure myself SS is in bed and I don't have to deal with watching him eat like an animal or act like he's a prisoner in a concentration camp.
He complains all the time and cries in his room to himself saying that he misses his BM (she lives 2 hours away but doesn't have a car so is not exercising her weekend visits during the 5 weeks that my SO has the kid....plus no matter what she says, I'm pretty sure she likes having a "break" from this exhausting child). I keep listening to it and I really just want to go in there and be like "you miss your mom so much? Call her right now and let her know I'm driving you home THIS MOMENT."
Anyone else just want to put their kid in the car when they whine that they miss the other parent?
PS: I secretly hope that he tells his mom that we were "mean" to him all summer and she forbids him from spending another 5 weeks with us next summer. Just saying....
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You are completely right
You are completely right she's enjoying her summer away from the little monster! I'm currently fretting that our skids are coming back in a few weeks. We have full custody and she takes minimal visitation, took weekends out of the custody order even before DH moved and she only lived a couple hours away. She's psycho, the kids are awful, I can't stand it and we have them all year!
I HAVE put SD6 on the phone with her mom to tell her she wants to live with her when she was crying and telling me how horrible I was and that she wanted her "real mom" and having a meltdown. BM is such a lazy bitch she didn't want custody and is a terrible example of a parent period. She'll just talk the skids down and encourage them to talk with us because she is terrified we "might" send the skids back to her. She loves her freedom. We honestly don't think she'd want to see the skids if it weren't for her family (grandparents). She hasn't once travelled with them, she sends her mother or aunt or brother. LAZY!
My SS8 BM doesn't even call
My SS8 BM doesn't even call to check on him when he's gone from her for a week. She always tells us she needs a 'break'. Maybe she should have thought about that before she had the affair while married to my DH, that resulted in the SS8... Kid is not even my DH's Bio-child... When SS8 was younger, like 6, he'd want to call the BM when with us and always talked about her & missing her, but he's stopped doing that now. He's finally figured out she doesn't give a sh8t about him and he, at 8yrs old, told her so last week (Fussed at her for never spending time with him). What did BM do? Brushed him off, told us he 'getting on her nerves' and then she sent him to her friends for a week. Tomorrow we have to pick him up from there and he'll be my headache for another 9 days. I can bet she won't check on him, not once. Wish she did say she missed him--I'd have him in the car in a heartbeat!!