your not our mommy
:jawdrop:
i really need some help. my bf's 6 yr old son and 5 year old daughter are here for another couple of weeks. They do not respect my bio childrens toys, house rules, or anyones feelings. it is just them and myself during the day while their dad is at work and they litteraly DO NOT LISTEN. i ask them to do something or tell them not to be running around and screaming and they look at me like im an idiot and continue to do what they wish. I have tried talking to my bf about this and all his responses have been " well what do you want me to get them to do" and/or " this is new for them"
well guess the crap what!?!?!? its new for everyone in the house. they are 5 & 6 years old and know what the rules of the house are and are continuing to blatenly ignore them and myself. i need some advice, i am ready to leave. i thought i was a strong woman but i was very mistaken. my bf and i have never faught and over the past week and a half all we have been doing is arguing and ive packed my things because i dont even feel comfortable in my own home.
"no because if I was your
"no because if I was your mother you wouldn't be acting like rotten little shits." Or something of the sort. Just calmly walk over turn off tv, remove toys and gaming systems, take them by the hand and put them in their room. State aloud, "my house my rules."
lol ya i am not saying my bio
lol ya i am not saying my bio children are perfect lil ones but these kids have zero respect what so ever. and to top it all off, the lying, yelling, screaming, crying is really getting on my nerves. ahhh! i think i may just rip my hair out and claim insanity :?
Tell your BF to put them in
Tell your BF to put them in camp. If he refuses, tell him you won't keep them.
What would he do with them during the summer if he lived alone?
I'm off all summer. (Teacher) My DF has his youngest 2 for the month of July. His kids respect me and do what I tell them to do. They are in day camp because I'm not spending my summer break sitting anyone.
I forgot to mention of the
I forgot to mention of the above comments don't work, put them in the corner and make them hold cans until their arms hurt
YOUR SO RIGHT !!! WE ARE
YOUR SO RIGHT !!!
WE ARE NOT THERE MOTHER DONT ACT LIKE ONE TO THEM
THE MORE U DO FOR THEM THE WORST THEY GET
THE OLDER THE CHILDREN THE WORST THEY GET
AND MAKE SURE THAT YOU TELL THEM WHO IS THE BOSS
CAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY THEY ARE IN YOUR HOUSE
AND IF THEY DONT LIKE IT GO TO MUMMY AND ONLY COME WHEN BF HOME
AND TOUGH LOVE FOR BF THAT WAS THE RESPONSILIBITIES HE WANTED FOR LIFE SO HE GOT TO MAKE DECISIONS WITH U SO THE CHILDREN KNOW THAT BOUNDARIES ARE HERE TO STAY
two words for your boyfriend:
two words for your boyfriend: SUMMER CAMP
He can drop them off on his way to work and pick them up on the way back.
"You are not my mommy" Yes I
"You are not my mommy"
Yes I know. I lucked out on that one.
BF "well what do you want me to get them to do" and/or " this is new for them"
You: You are so right. We shouldn't rush this. You take care of them, and I'll go out. See you later. Oh and while you're at work, you should get them a sitter. I have things I have to do during the day.
That's just me though. I wouldn't watch a man's kids for free.
Agree.
Agree.
Your house. Your rules. BF
Your house. Your rules. BF included. If he can't get his kids under control, then he will need to find care for them. You are not resident babysitter.