bf lost his job due to sd
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saturday night when bf was on his way into work, his supervisor called and told him he was let go. apparently all of his abcences the last 2 months (due to sd) were the cause of it. his work performance is the best the company has seen in a long time---but they basically deemed him useless since he's been takin off too often to deal with sd issues.
i guess she ran off friday afternoon again, cause she wanted to hang oout somewhere n bf said no. he had called me after he reported her as a runaway. like i give a shit? the kid hates me.
*sigh* so it looks like things are just falling apart little by little. if he doesnt find work soon he will lose the house---my parents will let him stay but not sd.
I agree, I would modify the
I agree, I would modify the CS cause he can't work cause of her issues.
He has custody, not BM. He
He has custody, not BM.
He and BM made the choice not to parent their kid. Now he's dealing with the backlash of that choice.
She's on drugs. ODed a few
She's on drugs. ODed a few weeks ago. Sex, pregnancy scare, rape... this poor 13 year old has been to hell and back and both parents did nothing to stop it.
I have a lot of compassion
I have a lot of compassion for you, and this kid. It sounds like NEITHER parent should have custody...you should really get yourself and BD out of this he11hole. And I hope someone who knows both BF and BM calls CPS on their a$$es and gets SD13 out of this nightmare, and get her some professional help.
i have been stayin at my
i have been stayin at my parents house with bd5.
The whole situation is really
The whole situation is really sad...mostly for the SD.
I agree with Disney... these parents decided not parent this child, and now it's time to suffer the consequences.
"monster" children are rarely born that way... they are taught to be monsters.
Your post is very scary to me
Your post is very scary to me because I can see this happening with SD7...it's only 6 years away. But that's the problem, what can you do with her? She's only 13! She needs some intervention for sure, but who can help her? Not her parents obviously.
This just makes my palms sweat thinking about this reality. Some people try sending the kid off to grandparents or aunts and uncles who live far away from the trouble. But I also know that can be an unwelcome burden on Grandparents.... I feel for you. Such a mess.
There is another option...
There is another option... you can call social services and surrender her to a program. I was placed into the system at 16 (through no fault of my own) and sent to live @ a group home. There were several kids there whose parents had placed them in the custody of social services because of behavior similar to your skid's. It may be something to look into.
maybe, but times have changed
maybe, but times have changed so im not sure. i would hope that someone along the line would have mentioned that option....although bf never really tried to get her sent off until now. before that, it was me saying she needs help that her parents cant give. so they probably thought i was some evil sm bitch trying to get daddy to myself...which isnt true.