my step doughter, and how we really meet

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while i was at macys, a girl came up to me and started to flirt. I atoumatically regected because she was way younger than me. Then a couple of minutes latter the same girl came up to me and moved her hand from my chest down lower and lower, and again i regected her offer.
Then a couple yers later while i was at the Bahamas i meet my current wife, i never meet here doughter till we were very seroise about our relationship. Then days before i was going to propose i meet the doughter it was the same girl from Macys. I dont think she remembers, and i wasnt going to not go forward with the marriage just because of some misunderstanding. So its been a couple of months while my wife, step doughter and i have been living together and it seems that when every day passes it gets akwarder and akwarder.
i need help because i dont know if i should tell her, because i just need to get i out. I dont even know if she remembers

This sounds weird. No don't

This sounds weird. No don't tell her and forget all about it.

yah and it is wierd, and

yah and it is wierd, and thank you for your advice

So telling her will make you

So telling her will make you feel better, nice. How will it make your sd feel embarrassed, not so nice. More importantly how do you think it will make your wife feel. Very embarrassed, uncomfortable, upset to know her daughter is like that. I have no idea what you are worrying about here unless there is a bit more to the story. But whatever if the SD truly does not remember you or any incidents involving you, then why upset everyone just to make you feel what, less guilty, less uncomfortable. FORGET IT. You are not doing anyone any favours by bringing ups such a trivial incident. Not too sure why you remember her so strongly. But for everyone's sake move on and put the past in the past.

dtzyblnd you have spelt it

dtzyblnd you have spelt it out thorougly for him and you are absolutely right. I hope for everyones's sake he chooses path no:2 and just gets on with it. No good can come of re hasing this me thinks.

Have you talked with the

Have you talked with the mother about this? What does she seem to think? If I were the mother, I would rather be made aware of my child's behavior so I could do something about it. Does this girl have a father figure in her life? That could explain a lot right there. If she does, is he good or is he toxic for her? Somebody needs to know what she could be thinking here or she could mess with the wrong guy & mess up her life. With or without you being with her mother speaking. Possible she is seeking to become pregnant? If yes, she looking for love in all the wrong places & that is a red flag.