My skids have been going to counseling because of the bs their bm has subjected them too (long story short, she's a sociopath. ie lots of keeping them from their dad til he was awarded custody). Last week after counselling BM started slandering DH when kids told her they had fun at counselling. ("He used to beat up his ex girlfriends, gave one of.them a black eye blab blab blab"). The judge stated that DH does not have to provide BM with the counselling info, so she's posses.... and probably scared that DH will use it against he in court (If only)

SD9 was smart enough to text one of DH's ex girlfriends (her mom lets her have a cell at her house) and ask if he ever beat her up. Obviously she said no.

Tonight during their.scheduled phone call, BM kept pressing SD9 about school conferences. She kept saying "you need to talk to dad about it." And kept repeating that same sentence about 5 times and finally "I don't want to fight-- Ok bye!" And handed the phone to her sister. All of this as cool as a cucumber. No tears, no yelling, PURE STRENGTH!!

I was so proud of her!! I gave her a hug and told her she did the right thing