My husband P has a child with a woman and this lil girl is 2 years older than my son.The girls' mom is remarried and she doesnt go to work but insists on the lil girl goin to private skool.P is the one who has to pay for all of it.I asked him abt our son goin to private skool and he says he can only afford for one kid and thats the dota.I dont see how this makes sense coz i sacrifice the last penny for him but he wont do the same for our son.we live in a rented house and i dont have a car.i would like for us to plan our things and be secure.but he doesnt understand that.he even had to borrow money from me so he could pay her fees.i rili do not think this works. i said she can come stay with us and see her ma during weekends or she can go to a cheaper school.i know i got into this knowin he had kids but its takin a toll on me and esp wen i have my own son to consider. i dont want to be labelled the evil step ma here but i feel it cmn.If the ma was paying half i wouldnt have a problem but this is drivin me crazy. Do u think i am crazy.