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Healwithsteel's picture

Submitted by Healwithsteel on Fri, 11/18/2011 - 11:49am

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Blended Family Issues

Having issues with BM about visitations with NCP. She is stating that DH is not allowed to bring SD13 to our house since she feels that I am the cause of all the problems between DH and SS17 who recently tackled me during an argument. DH has now suspended visitation with SS until he has some good long therapy. My question that this sound wrong. Its DH visitation and he can do what he wants within reason.

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Submitted by Lauren1438 on Fri, 11/18/2011 - 12:02pm

It is wrong, you are not abusive, drug using, or violent. She can not dictate who your SO can have around his children during his parenting time. If there is a CO in place he needs to have it enforced. After all if we could control things that go on at the BM's homes, I am none of us would ever allow the kids to be around the losers that these BM's pick for their boyfriends. If you were honestly a danger then yes she could have it put in the court order but you dont sould like you are it will never hold up in court.