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OBrien88's picture

Left that horrible woman that I thought I was going to marry.

Found someone that loves like I do.

No more back burner / dog in the corner syndrome...

Now I just have to figure out how to get all my stuff out of her house.

Leaving is the cure to all this hatred, anger, and resentment.

Thanks to everyone that said that my relationship was a giant red flag.. Cause that's exactly what it was.

Ever have one of those people in your life you feel so much animosity for you wish you never met them... Yeah... Get out.

Your happiness is worth exponentially more than playing mom, dad, or hero to a person or people who will never love you like you love them.

Leave it behind you, keep your chin up, and live for you again.

The most interesting man in the world...

I don't always live for me..

But when I do..

I prefer someone who contributes to my life.

Auteur's picture

Good for you! Another survivor makes it out alive from StepHell! Now vow NEVER AGAIN to date anyone with previously enjoyed spawn!!!

OBrien88's picture

Oh, I vow...

and thank you.

I feel soo much better about life again. Like the clouds just broke and there's no better feeling than sun on my face.

OBrien88's picture

God.. The exit plan.. Don't bother they never work out like you think they're going to.

And how terrible is that? Cause I know the feeling.. Of having an exit plan.. Like your life is just in limbo until it hits the fan you know? Sooner than later, and better her than me.

But it does seem like the step parent / blended family gig is a big painful joke... I don't know why people put themselves through it..

herewegoagain's picture

Good for you! Have a happy life! Don't let others spoil that! And by the way, find someone without kids if you don't have any of your own...really, there are PLENTY of women out there without kids marrying men with kids because, well, there aren't many men without kids...sigh... Wink