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cleigh78's picture

Sad I am new to this site..I ran across it in google search engine and am really down...my daughter's father had a new daughter 2 days ago and she is at their house this weekend. My husband works out of town and I am home alone feeling sad for myself. I have had NOTHING but problems with her father and now all of a sudden this week he is father of the year. And to be honest I AM PISSED he got to have another child when he doesn't even take care of our 6 year old...Is this normal?

oneoffour's picture

He hasn't changed. He will be the same idiot who cannot take care of a child to save himself. He will rely on his new wife/GF to take car eof his children.

Be grateful you have a hard working husband and a delightful 6 yr old. Maybe he will leave you alone to run your life now. He isn't FOTY unless you give him the title. And 6 yr olds are so loopy they change their minds on a dime. She loves her father. This is OK. But you are Mummy and NO ONE can take that away.

cleigh78's picture

You are so right..his new wife (they met and got married 2 months into the relationship) she has two children of her own. For the past year we have been in and out of court 3 times. Her son molested my child and all the courts did was put a limit on daddy that he could not be left alone, then all of a sudden NO childsupport started so back to court we go.