caught in the act
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Do you ever try to catch your skids in the act of doing something that DH is not aware of even though its obvious to you? I am trying to just allow DH to see what is going on right under his nose that SS9 keeps getting away with. and i am the only one that catches him. when i report the behavior (or if i report it) then i come off looking like i am picking on him because he is a ss, i look like the wicked stepmom. am i the only one dealing with this? argh!
oh my You too!! that was me
oh my You too!! that was me also! i looked like the bad guy! But although, my SS9 was most times naughty & SD11 would dob on him, so he got in trouble without my help!
But then BM got in his head telling him not to kiss or hug me anymore & i have no right to tell him what to do! Yet i practically lived there & DH gave me the reins to step in!
Then i backed off when things started to get tense with the kids resenting what i did for them! BM was their problem in their poor little ears!!!
I everytime i find something
I everytime i find something and let DH know I am the bad guy and yelled at...cuz the sun sets with SS15.