Sunday was the last day of my son's visit and we were planing to do something special with the kids. We had decided to go to the planetarium and animal park. Just as we were getting the kids dressed who should pull up out side but my younger brother and my bm. :sick: I have not talked to this woman in over 8 yrs and had planned on never speaking to her again. H tells me I have to be nice or at least polite. She was here maybe 5 min when she started criticizing everything, me, the grandkids, the house, both my sons, you name it she bitched about it. When my son decided to leave early she invited herself to go with him. He called me later that night and said he put her out at the bus station rather than take her home with him. This woman, I refuse to call her mother, popped in and out of my life my entire childhood. She only comes around when she wants something, she embezzled a LARGE amount of money from a trust that my grandparents set up for me. I didn't push for prosecution at the time because it upset my father too much, he had just had a major stroke and we almost lost him, and now it's too late. She had the nerve to call my grandchildren mistakes. I actually had a doctor tell me to stay away from her for my own health. After everyone left I told H that I was going to take a bath and he follows me trying to talk about it all. He thinks I should be more understanding to her. I end up telling him to shut up and mind his own business, never did that before. In the end I didn't get my bath but I did get a couple of pitchers of Margaritas. I payed for that this morning though. I swear there are days that I feel like I'm surrounded by crazy people. Didn't mean to rant so much, just needed to vent a little.