Does that bother you that a 15 year girls still sits on her father lap? I'd have never done such as thing. Is this ok now days? My father would have put a stop to do if I had tried that and said it was not appropriate He'd hug me good bye, etc. but never hanging all over another adult like that.

Your dh is gross. DF put an end to sitting on daddy's lap when SD was like 9-10. HE is the problem. Must love the innaprorpriate behavior of his young sd's. So sorry hon, this sucks for you!!!

So never once did DH try and include you? I only ask because a few years ago I stayed in the bedroom with the door closed when ss's were over. I believe the previous visit they were giving me the cold shoulder.

After DH took them home he asked me why was I acting distant towards them. Never would ask them about being distant with me. SMH

While showing affection to your kids via hugs and kisses on head or cheek, this behavior is not age appropriate nor is it respectful towards you (sitting with her back to you). The only person that can put a stop to this is DH. I feel for you. I would absolutely ignore it and leave the room. If SD is doing this to get a reaction from you, you will cheat her of that.

mini wives!

Boy do I get the odd man out. I just isolate myself now. As for the lapsitting,I think its odd and seems childish...and to have her back to you, that's weird, rude, and disrespectful.

I read some where on here about a poster that had a similar problem. She took pictures of them on her cell phone just acting like nothing was wrong. All of a sudden it was a problem, especially when people saw it on FB! It worked.

Lol I’ll never forget the Rock hugging Daddy’s head to her boobs exclaiming that “i know what you like, Daddyyyy” about her birthday gift to him of a bag of coffee. Uhhhh gross

I can relate to feeling weird about the lap sitting. SD17 has always been overly cuddly with DH. It's her nature, and DH sometimes gets uncomfortable with it too, but he is from an overly affectionate family (imho). She is also prone to using the phrase "Dadddyyyy", which is super grating and annoying. But in my case she's not trying to undermine me, in fact, she tries to get cuddly with me too.

When she does get close and cuddly to DH, I get myself as far from the two of them as possible. They can look like love birds on the couch if they want to, but it's just gross to me.

The girls get satisfaction from you sitting there watching them exclude you. Why not get up and leave? Go run an errand or something. Take away their audience and they might just stop performing. Also agree that sitting on his lap is creepy for their age.

This is a bit perverted, and though our husbands love their DD's adoration, there is a point of sick and twisted.

I was having sushi by myself yesterday. I’d been out shopping and decided to treat myself.

There was a table with Dad, son aprox 10? and daughter aprox 8? They were eating but not really talking.

I sneezed and Dad said Bless you. I sad thank you. That was it, we looked at each other but there was no flirting or anything.
The daughter leapt out of her seat and jumped on Dadddddeeeeee.
He was obviously annoyed and told her to go back to her own seat. She went to the washroom instead. When she came back she again tried to sit with him, then stood behind him and hugged him.
She then looked at me and stuck out her tongue at me!

I burst out laughing. She turned bright red and slunk back to her seat. Dad missed the whole thing, her brother just shook his head.

I feel bad for any woman he dates.

I read a bit of your history. Yeah, 15 year old girls are still trying to figure out their sexuality, but daddees lap isnt the place to do it. DAddeee needs to stop that, you need to talk to him about that. Im so sorry that you feel left out. It sounds very lonely in your relationship.

My SO has 2 girls, and the yougnest occasionally gets very needy and will hang off dadee. He doesnt see anything wrong with it, kind of ignores it, but its starting to bother me.

SS10 is all over DH. Always. Sitting on couch? Has to either be leaning on him, have his feet on him, have his head in his lap with a pillow, sit on his lap, etc. Standing? Always hanging on his arm or grabbing his hand and "pretending" to pull him around and using "baby talk". He didn't really do this when he was younger, not sure why the heck he's doing it now and it annoys the heck out of me. DH is always playing video games with him and spending a lot of 1 on 1 time with him, what the heck more does he want? It kind of creeps me out.