She's gotten smarter.
BM is back to whoring around.... This time shes dating a guy while sleeping with people that he's ok with. So far though it seems like she's keeping it from the kids atleast but I wonder how long before it impacts them. She never does handle relationship issues well.
I give it 2 more weeks before she introduces the guy to the kids then moves him in and starts the whole future step daddy crap again.
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BM told us last night she has
BM told us last night she has a new boyfriend...who is married...with a brand new grandbaby...while DH just saw her with her STBXH last weekend when she dropped off something the boys needed for the weekend. No idea if he boys have met NBF (though I wouldn't be surprised because YSS is showing signs of anxiety again), but she isn't hiding ANY of these facts from them since she told us in front of them.
I personally don't care who she dates or what she does, but I don't want to see it impact the boys. They aren't bad kids, and they don't deserve to go through any hell just so BM can get laid. I actually don't mind if she wants to sleep around and have fun, but I don't think the boys need to know.
This BF for your BM shall pass into the night as quickly as he came. Yes, take all the double entendre out of that statement. }:)
How do you know? I mean that
How do you know? I mean that she is sleeping around? It’s easier to find out that she is dating I guess. She sounds so “classy”
Last time we heard ours is sleeping with her pot dealers. We’d be delighted if she moved men in. DH would have s Chance to stop paying alimony. It would be nice not to give 1k a month to a person who flat refuses to work
We have friends who are aware
We have friends who are aware of her behavior. Theu were a me to tell us the name of the main guy she is with.
In our case the guy moving in does nothing finically it just sets the kids up for more instability.
She brings in a new guy and starts pushing the happy family life. Then the guy vanishes. I don't see this being long term of she pushes the guy on the kids.
Also while she's screwing around she's not taking care of the kids but heaven forbid dad get even an extra moment with them unless grandpa actually puts his foot down and says he won't watch the kids.
It’s crazy moving people in.
It’s crazy moving people in. And that quick. Why can’t they just date for awhile to make sure it’s serious. Sick woman. Why? I am not saying she shouldn’t date or shouldn’t have multiple partners if that’s how she rolls but why get kids involved???
I dated plenty in my life as I had plenty of single years and am not a prude at all but the only man I lived with while DD was little and lived at home was her father, my first husband. Before my second marriage I had a long term SO of 8 years, last 4 of which we lived together but DD was long out of the house and grown up. I don’t get how this woman brings random men to share her house with young kids! It could be dangerous.
My DH supports BM so if she moves in with the guy regardless how poor he is, we have a chance to stop alimony. Ours isn’t in a relationship though. Just screwing people.
BM2 has Mr Cyprus living with
BM2 has Mr Cyprus living with her, on and off, for the last 10+ years. Whether they are on or off, she has men on the side. Here, in Cyprus, online. She's one classy broad *eyeroll*