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Gunner's picture

Submitted by Gunner on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 8:28am

Last night my ex showed up wanting to "talk" in a low cut top and skin tight jeans looking good. I remembered part of the reason I married her }:) . I was smart though and didn't let her in. Instead I stood in the doorway and let her talk. I know she lost her job and her and the kids are living on a friends couch and that she is desperate right now so I was careful. She turned the conversation to bedroom talk and right as I was fighting not to give in and invite her in the cops showed up. My dd had seen her and called 911 to report her breaking my restraining order. She went to jail and I took my kids for ice cream and thanked dd for being stronger then me.
On another note, my first ex wife has a boyfriend that is moving in. They have been seeing each other for 2 yrs and they are engaged now. Good for her but they are going to be living in my house. He is going to pay me half of market rent for rent and he signed a lease. He seems nice and the kids like him so that's good.
Happy Halloween everyone!

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TinyDancer's picture

Submitted by TinyDancer on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 8:31am

Well, that's kinda gross. You'd hit it just because it was there in front of you? No....

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Submitted by Puzzled9401 on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 8:35am

One of the first lessons life ever taught me: Never depend on a man... that is why I buy my own diamonds Smile

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 8:38am

Gunner, hahaha I get it lol, a man is a man is a man.... you are a better man then what I am,

I would've tapped that and said, well still not taking you back no get lost please, your problems are not mine any more....

but I'm glad you are not me and I'm glad your daughter saved you, that was a well deserved ice cream there...

You will find a woman who loves you for you and not because of your wallet, but stay single for a while to make sure you catsh the right butterfly..

I'm so glad for you and your kids, for getting out of that situation

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 10:08am

Exactly what I was thinking....hit it and then showed her the door.

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Submitted by ProbablyAlready... on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 8:38am

You literally voiced one of my fears. Lol. BM is a tendency to wear VERY revealing and inappropriate clothing, nt that I think DH is super attracted to her, but in contrast I'm a jeans and tshirt one piece swimsuit type of person. lol. So sometimes I get nervous. I don't do the show off my skin s***.

But on the other side of things... WAY TO STAY STRONG. And yay for ice cream. Hope things keep going and looking up for you!

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 8:42am

:jawdrop: :jawdrop: you can show some skin in your own home woman, when skid free... or in the bedroom..... just to keep DH interested not to look at the skank...

Remember don't advertise what you are not prepared to sell

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Submitted by ProbablyAlready... on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 8:48am

I do in the bedroom and I even wear shorter shorts around the home. I just prefer to keep things covered in public so I can actually choose who gets to see things. I prefer not to be falling out for everyone and their dog. lol. I like showing DH skin. Lmao. Just not everyone else. And he doesn't look thank goodness from what I can tell. Just makes me nervous to have slut attempting to flirt with DH whenever she possibly can. I'm a bit territorial. Lmao. Oops!

Also we're never skid free... except for like a few hours every few months when she has a "use for them."

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 8:52am

ah then you have nothing to worry about .... you would've known if DH where drawling over his Ex showing skin... he probably thinks.. thank dog I have a sexy decent wife not putting it on display for every one....

nope my BM never bothered me, she tried, oh dear hell she tried, but SO was not interested.... Aergia and BM went as far as planting BM's cloths in SO's cupboard, I found it , I asked him and this... Aergia said Mum took a shower in his room, maid must have put it there... SO exploded and since then he locked his room when he's not at home.... }:) }:) Maid confirmed BM took a shower there one morning and they planned it

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Submitted by ProbablyAlready... on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 9:43am

One day I'll get to that point! It's started getting better. Just sets me a bit on edge... Something about how much he forgave her during the marriage makes me mildly paranoid I guess. lol

But positive side, he avoids her as much as possible. So I know he's loyal at least!

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Submitted by hereiam on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 8:55am

Your DD deserves ice cream every.single.night.

If you had had sex with her and then not given her what she wanted (you back, paying her bills) she may very well have charged you with rape. I have seen it happen.

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Submitted by Icansorelate on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 9:02am

your ex was probably ovulating and figured she would get pregnant and trap you. Your DD helped you dodge a potential bullet.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 10:11am

I didn't think of that either. I know, personally, I knew each time that I did get pregnant, I knew I was at the most fertile. Once I was drunk and the other BC failed.

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Submitted by Killingmeslowly on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 10:12am

Glad you were able to restrain yourself!

I just can't get past this though....

"On another note, my first ex wife has a boyfriend that is moving in. They have been seeing each other for 2 yrs and they are engaged now. Good for her but they are going to be living in my house. He is going to pay me half of market rent for rent and he signed a lease. He seems nice and the kids like him so that's good."

Your first ex is moving into your house with her fiance??? :jawdrop: Yikes....nope.

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Submitted by robin333 on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 10:37am

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 12:59pm

Gunner don't let the wrong head do the thinking. Go back and re-read your blogs here. She is bat crap crazy. The sex is not worth the crazy. Seriously, dude, boobs are a dime a dozen. Find someone who isn't going to rip your mind apart and clear your bank account!!

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 3:09pm

Gunner...no. Just no. She's living on her friend's couch, and wants back in.

No.

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 3:20pm

I remembered part of the reason I married her.

Remember all of you the reasons why you DIVORCED her.
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Submitted by StepUltimate on Tue, 10/31/2017 - 3:56pm

Way to stay strong, very glad your daughter made the call! I am glad you didn't fall for the honey-trap. That woman hurt you, her own kids, your kids, even your ex, and her path of destruction is still growing. Avoid it as you have been doing. There are plenty of other hot women out there who won't destroy lives & use you & hurt your kids. You deserve much better than your cray-cray ex.