So ex does not speak to his parents. He made up a horrible lie about his brother ( I know it is not true because of what he told me when we were first together and what his new victim version is) .They are nice people but I have distanced my self as they are not my family and I have my own.

However they love bs10 and his brothers and when they are in town they want to see them. Since there is no communication with ex they go through me. I have always said let me know what you want and I will work with you. It is not their fault that the ex is the way he is and they are bs 10's family.

Well bs knows that his dad doesn't have a relationship with them and that when they are in town and he sees them that stays between us. I hate that but he knows that there are certain things you don't talk about with his dad.

He will see them tomorrow and he has said he thinks it is wrong that his dad is like this with his parents and keeps asking me to tell him why. He is very upset with his dad shutting nana and papa out and for his dad referring to his new wife's dad as papa.

I would never tell him the real reason and have told him it is grown up business, but I see this as the beginning of a lot of questions about his dad and i.