Hi. First time ever posting anything but I could do with some advice. Please be gentle lol. Ok here it goes...I have been with a girl for over 5 years now who has 2 children. I get on great with the youngest but the last 6 years with her now 12 year old daughter have been a nightmare. I have tried and tried but she has absolutely no respect for her elders and even disrespected her mum constantly. I know I've made mistakes but I have tried to resolve these issues. I also know that part of the problem has been a lack of discipline on my ex partners side. We argue constantly over many issues regarding her daughter and she's started drinking heavily and it's been causing many more problems. I had threatened to leave twice before and she talked me round but I've had enough and to be honest I can't stand being around her daughter. She wants to try again and has made more promises but she has let me down a few times now and I've made the decision to end it and moved out. I still have feelings for her and her other child and I now feel terrible about leaving. I worry about them but I think I'm doing the right thing. I'm just messed up in the head with it all and it's driving me nuts. Am I right in my decision or am I wrong...this is what I keep asking myself. Any advice is welcome...thanks