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OT-DH on his way to parent's house to TALK to them AGAIN...hmmm

herewegoagain's picture

Ah, so after last week's fiasco with MIL not calling DH to tell him that his SDAD was hospitalized with heart problems, DH has decided it is time to go back to talk to them...hmmm. He claims he wants to see his SDAD and will tell basically let his mother know that if she dares not call him next time, she can kiss his a$$ goodbye and to not ever expect a call from me if anything happens to him because he WILL DEMAND that I not call them or anyone else. Let's see how this goes...I don't think they'll get it. They never have and he continues to give them opportunities, although he has definitely made his point very clear a few times already...sigh

By the way, I did a search online last night and it was AMAZING how many women went through this same crap with MILs...crazy

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herewegoagain's picture

lol sounds about right lol But you know, FINALLY my DH is on to her BS games. I always say things happen for a reason and I truly believe they do, although sometimes it SUCKs.

Before we moved here, my DH still thought his mom was NOT evil or doing anything to purposely hurt him or us. He told me he talked to his mother, we could pay her rent in one of her rental homes and that she "forgave me"...hmmm...I was pissed and told him that she had NOTHING to forgive, but that I knew that in time he would see it. We moved to her rental and after about 5months took off one Saturday and TOOK OUR STUFF and never returned. In the 5mos we were there he was able to see her true colors...her lies...her manipulation...her treatment of me AND OUR SON. Ever since that, she completely broke his trust. While he has attempted on a few occasions to make amends, he has also been very firm and told her "like it is"...as soon as she steps out of line, he let's her have it and no longer gives a shit about her crying and drama. The only reason I think he stays connected at this point is because of his SDAD whom he adores...but even he will be put aside if they continue this crap. We shall see what he comes back with...sigh