NSFW. So tired of vile BM
This bitch is off her fucking rocker.
Emails she has sent DH over the last couple days are really hitting the whole "You chose this life for them" thing hard. It has been
NINE
YEARS
and she is still carrying on about how whenever he responds to something with "we", that means that our finances are intermingled and she is threatening that she is going to uncover "his shady finances and income".
I am an independent school teacher trying desperately to get back to public school, and he sells insurance.
There is nothing shady.
There is fucking little money.
Yet I'm scared that she is thinking that she's entitled to my child support from my ex. Why can't I just laugh at it like DH does?
What the fuck? Why can't she MOVE THE FUCK ON? It is never going to stop- braces, high school trips to Europe, cars, college, weddings. She is under the impression that because she and DH divorced, SSstwinsA and B deserve a luxury lifestyle and whenever DH disagrees, he is a deadbeat......omg I just can't deal tonight.
On the happy side, I am making an apple tart with DS12 for his French class and have had a couple apple liqueurs mixed with whisky.
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She sounds like a nutjob -
She sounds like a nutjob - and I know how you feel.
Just take a deep breath and remind yourself that the crazy b!tch can't touch your money. And she thinks she's entitled to your money? Your CS? Laugh. Because the fact that she even thinks that is pure stupidity.
There's nothing shady about your and DH's finances and income. Let her waste her time and money finding that out (how was she planning on going about that anyway? Seriously?)
She's letting you, DH, and your money take up too much head space. Do yourself a favor and don't let her take up your head space. I'd tell DH not to mention it when BM b!tches to him.
Act like this woman is petty, stupid, and beneath you.
Because she is!
(and I'd love to have a few of those apple liqueurs + whisky. That sounds amazing)
In most states your income
In most states your income does not figure into figuring child support. Unlike alimony, your child support from your ex is not considered income as it is not taxed. No way she can touch that money.
I remember one time early in
I remember one time early in our relationship one of the skids asked me how much I make. I smiled and looked at them and said 'twice as much as your mother'. The bitch cant touch your money.
This kind of bull is why SO
This kind of bull is why SO and I have already decided that until the kids are 18+ we will not have a joint account. That way we NEVER have to even try to sort through the mess.
Exactly! DH and I do not have
Exactly! DH and I do not have one account together. I am so afraid of crazy, physco loser BM trying to get my money, she is the biggest gold-diggin POS on the planet!! I feel better just typing that!
IGNORE THE WHORE!!!!!!!! You
IGNORE THE WHORE!!!!!!!!
You and your DH need to just ignore her rants. Never pay any attention to what some POS thinks.
My adult SS and Babymamma (his GF and mother of his child) have been saying horrible things about me - as I had the audacity to ban them from my life and assets after their home invasion. I so do not give a sh*t what those two sacks of sh*ts think about me.
Omg thank you all for your
Omg thank you all for your reassurance- your posts have given me the deep breath I need before I go to sleep. THANK YOU!!
Your money has nothing to do
Your money has nothing to do with her. Courts don't make SM's pay for unrelated children just because their own BM is jealous.
It's been 10 years since the BM2 I deal with cheated on, left and divorced my DH. He has had to tell her off a couple of Sundays now when I'm not at work as she's sniffing around, trying to see if DH will take her back and has he left her all his money his Will since life isn't as peachy as she thought it would be without him.
Crazy, mental unbalanced BM's don't know how to do closure. They aren't mentally capable of it...unfortunately.
This is very ridiculous how
This is very ridiculous how this BM thinks that she is entitled to a SM's money. What a selfish cow!!
BM is not entitled in any way
BM is not entitled in any way to your money. And DH should stick to the divorce agreement where money is concerned. That is, he should only pay what he has been directed to pay. Any expenditures outside the agreement, must be agreed to, by both parties in advance. I say this, because our BM would sign the kids up for expensive schools, holidays, activities and then send the bill to us after the fact. Early on, DH felt he had to pay up, but eventually he had to shut this down. He sent the BM an email letting her know that if expenditures were not discussed and agreed upon in advance, he would not be paying them. Problem solved.
Now that all the SK are adults, we have had to tell them the same thing. They all consider DH an ATM thanks to BM training.
The "You chose this life!"
The "You chose this life!" line seems to be the battle cry of the salty BM.
Our BM cheated on SO for 2 years with her own first cousin. Initially, she wanted the divorce 100% and was planning on marrying the cousin. (Seriously.) Finally, her father stepped in and told her she was out of the family if she didn't cut the crap, and then she attempted to get back together with my SO. He and I had been dating for a year at that point.
Long story short, he didn't take her back and now I'm evil and every time they bicker about something regarding SD7 she says something to the effect of, "Well, YOU chose this." Uh, nope. You chose it when you were slobbin' on your cousin's knob, slag.
Still, she'll be blaming SO for the divorce until the end of time.
Close! They reconnected at a
Close! They reconnected at a family wedding. I guess the world is your oyster when you don't let a pesky little problem like genetics stand in the way of a good time!
"You chose it when you were
"You chose it when you were slobbin' on your cousin's knob, slag"
bwahahahahah I tinkled a little
So so gross. And she sounds
So so gross. And she sounds NUTTERS!
Nope nope nope. She can't
Nope nope nope. She can't touch your money hun. Not a cent. And she does sound like a certified loony toon. Don't let her rile you up--she's just spewing her crazy to whoever she thinks it will reach. Be calm and smooth as glass--nothing gets to them more than when you are completely unphased by their twisted adolescent behavior.
Thank you Danielsj2! I will
Thank you Danielsj2! I will aspire to that!!
" she is thinking that she's
" she is thinking that she's entitled to my child support from my ex"
Total loon.