Well, you can learn a LOT when you stalk a FB page
so, just a few minutes ago, I did my monthly glance at Medusa's FB page. It's locked down and she actually never uses it, BUT she has one public post - an old picture of the skids. I have always referred to it as the Beacon, if the skids every searched for her, they would know it's her because they would see the picture.
I noticed a couple of new things - first, her friends list was now down to 11 from 16. When I looked, I noticed that her aunts and cousins are no longer on her friends list. Odd...
The next thing I noticed was that I had never scrolled down to look at what groups she was in...so I did that. Well, what do you know? She is a member of the ASSState ESports club. I click on that and I can determine that it is a group of kids at ASSState who play video games. I search the group for her and I see that she joined the group on December 16 of last year. I then search the group for ASS, and yep, there's his profile. Interesting.
I clicked back to Medusa's page and I see another group that they both belong to - a huuuuuge public group that deals with SEO. So, I click on that and then search for her name. Yep, she joined that group on December 16, 2106 as well.
I texted DH to tell him what I had discovered and that my spidey senses were going insane! He says that he hadn't asked ASS lately if he was in contact with her, but he didn't think he was. He also said that if they were in contact, wouldn't ASS be on her friends list?
My initial reaction was that they had gotten in touch with each other but I scanned the cell phone records and DH did a scan of ASS's emails and didn't see anything. Of course, Medusa likely has an email we don't know so it's possible the search was not as strong as it could be.
So, my gut is telling me that Medusa was searching for ASS, saw that he was in these two groups, and then joined the groups to see if she could make contact. She was probably lonely last Christmas?? Who knows, but man oh man, the things you can learn by stalking 
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Your spider senses... love
Your spider senses... love it!!
Yep - pretty sure that will
Yep - pretty sure that will happen in the future. As long as even one of her kids are living in my house, I will continue to keep an eye out for it. Once they're all out, I don't GAF
"Instead I predict MSD
"Instead I predict MSD getting knocked up by some loser, trying to chase him for child support and living with BM who "has to stay home and take care of the baby" while MSD gets a sh!t job."
And complaining about how great OSD has it, that her life is sooooo easy but never making the connection that her sister made better choices.
Oh FOR SURE! I have learned
Oh FOR SURE! I have learned SO much from BM's FB page. One time I was looking through some of the pages she "follows"... DH's company page. SO WEIRD. He started working for this company 7 years ago, they have been split up for almost 13 years. And it's not like he works somewhere that she has any interest in. It is in the CPA industry... and she doesn't even DO her taxes LOL.
I actually called her out on this one. Text her and told her "so, the person at DH's company that runs the FB page informed us that you follow the page, stalker much? It's just weird". She never responded... but she also didn't unfollow the page.
Sick woman.
Weird that she obviously
Weird that she obviously never uses that face book page... if she only has 11 friends, there weren't be anything even in her news feed worth signing on to FB for. What I wonder is if she has a page you don't know about and she just happened to sign into the wrong page and join those groups? you know, kind of like the trolls around here do??
hmmmm
She used to have another page
She used to have another page that was her first name and a hybrid of her last name and Lurch's last name, but that one went inactive a while back. Even when this one was public, she only used it to try to spy on me - lol!!
The last post on her page (public, also) was on April 23, 2015 when she published a note. the note was "current legal name is First Name DH's Last Name." Her niece, who is no longer on her friends list, commented "???"
See, when she created the page, she was using FirstName Maiden Name.
Just further confirms my belief that she uses that page as a beacon for the skids...
Ha when I have spidey sense
Ha when I have spidey sense about SS it's usually when BM leaves him with a babysitter or if she's popping up for drama. I have a 95% accuracy rate at this point and DH has learned to be take my word for it when I tell him something's coming up. Facebook is a real crux for BM. She can't brag about how cool she is going out and getting drunk with friends AND be mom of the year posting late night cuddles with her kids so she rotates.
My track record is between 99
My track record is between 99 and 100% accuracy...
I just stalked BM's business
I just stalked BM's business instagram page. SD17 had been complaining
Of a selfie BM took with SD17's boyfriend that is now SD15's boyfriend. I agree that it's creepy and inappropriate especially now that he has slept with two family members as BM
Looks like she wants to be the third . I will see if I can post it
Gross.
Gross.
ick. major ick. that's them
ick. major ick. that's them right there in the photo together looking like a couple? WOW. Like seriously WOW.
Yep. It bothered SD17. There
Yep. It bothered SD17. There is no way in hell I would take a pic like that with my daughter's boyfriend
She is a very disrespectful
She is a very disrespectful and self-absorbed person, I gather, with no regards to her own children, or anyone, really.
Its one thing to read your stories, another to see the photo. Makes it more real, really.
http://imgur.com/eKPMRiQ so I
http://imgur.com/eKPMRiQ so I learned that she is still a creepy narcissistic horrible mom
Wow. Just wow. I would freak
Wow. Just wow. I would freak out if my mom did that to me when I was that age. And yuck to the sisters having/had the same boyfriend. God I'm so glad I don't have a sister.
Isn't this the BM who owns
Isn't this the BM who owns her own salon and has the H that is probably a drug dealer?? That gets beaucoup bucks in CS? Or I am confusing you with someone else?
How long did SD17 and the boyfriend date??? that is strange to take a selfie with your kids SO???
That's totally her! Her
That's totally her! Her husband has an automotive shop. They have a safe full of cash per SD. I don't know if he's a drug dealer or not but I've heard rumors. She gets a $1000 a month in child support and has her income from her salon. The boyfriend and SD dated almost an entire year. Now he's dating SD15. As far as I know he took both girls virginity.
But I thought it was very strange. It upset SD. She brought up it up to me that SD15 was now dating him and that her mom was kinda flirty with him and told me about the picture so I looked and ya, I can see why she's upset. She brought this up though before ditching grandma. I'm no contact again. She can weather her crazy BM and sister alone.
I confess to being a FB
I confess to being a FB stalker myself. I watch what is up. BM has around 4 different profiles and one of them really slams my SO. It was right before "papers were filed", in 2012, and she was trying to appeal to her FB "friends" because SO wanted a divorce after she was drinking too much and refused to stop. This also during a time where she was visiting with old high school buddies (male).
The internet is forever.
I learned a lot about her perception of their previous marriage. She has learned about privacy settings since then, however neither of us have blocked each other. She has made inappropriate comments on mutual friends pages and friends that are my SO's AND hers, AND who have since friended me too...!
For example, a mutual friend makes a post, SO comments, BM will ask flirtatiously "you went fishing, you brat, what did you catch, LOL?". I see this and ask that he not respond to her via social media or any media really, its not any of her business!!!! And WTF? He is no longer your "huz". Move on.