Ive noticed dh has been on a "YES" KICK latley with SS13. Im trying not to get all "bent outta shape" about it, but his grades have not been great. Dh's mind is on work and when he gets tired and over worked, he falls back to his, yes pattern. I think SS has picked up on it too, because ive noticed him asking dh stuff he would normaly ask me. He also has picked up on asking for apps for his phone.

Acouple of nights ago(ok this is a little dumb, but still bothered me) it was leftover night, so we are all in the kitchen pulling out stuff. Ss asked me if he could have this or that for dinner...well while stuff was heating up i remembered the pepsi(unopened in can) dh brought upstairs but did not drink.

Now we have a kid drawer of drinks- non caffinated- mostly for school nights. I dont like ss having alot of caffeine on school nights. (I dont like it much on non-school night, but. Well, cant fight about weekends) we also have a small fridge in the laundry room we keep the other sodas in that he has to ask for, but mostly its for me and dh.

So i bring the soda down and pop it in the fridge-ss saw me- goes to dh and asks "daddy can i have a soda?" Like you lil butthole-school night- i might have brought it down for dh or myself!! I heard him ask, but he tried to be quiet about it. I didnt say a word about that. .

We recently got a playstation4- its downstairs- ss has xbox in his room(same games different console) they want to play together fine- but ive noticed ss asking more and more about playing downstairs. Uhhh why? All your friends are on xbox, daddy is to tired to play everynight- me and baby girl are not getting getting kicked out of living room everynight so you can play!# weekends i dont care but ive noticed an increase in him asking to play it on school nights.

Last night we finished dinner, i set up baby girl in living room to start cleaning up, and i hear ss in dhs office in a low voice "daddy can i play the playstation?" Dh "yes, go ahead"

Uhhh what?

Thanks for asking if the tv is in use!

And if he plays xbox baby girl will be up my butt and make it hard for me to do dishes,SOO i parked my butt on the couch and started crocheting!! Might as well since noone else will keep her occupied.

I pretended like i heard non of it!

Did ss13 ask me about tv? NO
Did ss stand around for awhile, try to be annoying so id leave...lol.. yes.

Did he go back and whisper to dh..yes.

Im over this ask me for some stuff, then go to the other one for other things, and dh does not even factor me in, its just yes, sure, go ahead!

Dh has only got a few more yeses before i get bitchy.

Im not going back to how it was!

Im also not getting kicked out of the living room, uh no. You have the same games up stairs.

Also we (me and dh) have been doing great! We setup some new rules for ss and its been going well....we have only argued a few times. Im not going back.

So im giving dh a little time, but nextweek he will be passed this more stressful part of his work, then we will have a talk.
Mostly "the talk" is to warn dh i might not use a "nice tone" around them if they keep this up.

I dont want to argue, i dont want to be a bitch, but im not going back to yes mode daddy.