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libbie's picture

I don't understand this. Bm isn't allowed to move sd but she still retains custody? We only get custody if bm moves and now she is saying she may not. How can she say she isn't going to move now?
Bm told dh she would give him custody, she told him she would handle it with her attorney and send him the paperwork so he could head out and she'd call him when the paperwork was ready. He decided not to trust her which was good because she denied saying it when his attorney asked her about it. I think she was hoping he would leave and she could say he was a no show.

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Exjuliemccoy's picture

^^^I was thinking the same thing.

Libbie, you yourself DID win. You won't have to contend with skids full time. It's soul killing, thankless work that can lead to depression and stress-related health problems.

Your Xmas came early, girl!

Thumper's picture

BM does not want to loose the moo-la $$

at least your dh appears to have a meaningful relationship with his child/ren. Most time it is not the case.

I am thankful the courts are NOT so eager to give the nod with this junk. A report that I read about 1 year ago is that MOST custodial parents "need" to move due to a job, is nothing but hot air for a low end job and attempt to have minimum over nights to maximize child support obligations. sorry but you must follow the money.

Now of course this is not always the case.

I am very familiar with big buck wage earners who are 'transferred' but you will find most requests to move do not contain language even close to "Armstrong" whom bio parent works for is transferring Mr. Flooring Executive to Prague for the next 4 years.
The above is a true story.

Toastergirl's picture

This does not surprise me in the slightest. Family court is all about the status quo.

I'm not even surprised at the fact BM has decided to stay.