Exactly, he wants to be with her but he doesn't want to take care of her.
Sorry about that. I didn't word that exactly correctly. I was trying to type on my phone. SD and BM have caused so much drama for me. I just hope that my kids or myself have ever caused their SM that much grief. If we did, I would apologize or have my kids apologize.
Pretty safe to bet that you or your kids don't treat their SM that way. Jerks typically don't think they can do wrong...
Good for you standing your ground on this. It's funny how he doesn't want to deal with her at HIS job but it's okay for you to do it. Hopefully she'll surprise everyone and behave for the poor soul who agreed to have her so you don't get her dropped off on your doorstep.
SD didn't want to come here anymore. He would take her out on his own. He would take her out Every Saturday and Sunday in the beginning. Then all of the sudden he has decided that he can only get her every other Weekend for only a few hours either Saturday or Sunday. It just amazes me that he just can't spend that much time with her. When she is here, he would disappear to watch sports and I would have to inform him his daughter is here, I am sure she would like to spend time with YOU. He thought I was going to entertain her and take care of her while she was here. I had to keep informing him that his daughter came to spend time with HIM. He would get so mad. I just can't comprehend how he just expected me to do everything for her and he was going to disappear and watch tv.
I hate the fact that everyone assumes that since I work from home, that I can babysit or run errands for them. They just do not understand the WORK part.
I know this. My husband has two small grandchildren
I cared for them one day a week as baby's to save on child care. Since my husband has retired and I'm treated like a nobody I now tell him when they come over he is to care for them .he didn't do that well.
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Exactly, he wants to be with
Exactly, he wants to be with her but he doesn't want to take care of her.
Sorry about that. I didn't word that exactly correctly. I was trying to type on my phone. SD and BM have caused so much drama for me. I just hope that my kids or myself have ever caused their SM that much grief. If we did, I would apologize or have my kids apologize.
Pretty safe to bet that you
Pretty safe to bet that you or your kids don't treat their SM that way. Jerks typically don't think they can do wrong...
Good for you standing your ground on this. It's funny how he doesn't want to deal with her at HIS job but it's okay for you to do it. Hopefully she'll surprise everyone and behave for the poor soul who agreed to have her so you don't get her dropped off on your doorstep.
SD didn't want to come here
SD didn't want to come here anymore. He would take her out on his own. He would take her out Every Saturday and Sunday in the beginning. Then all of the sudden he has decided that he can only get her every other Weekend for only a few hours either Saturday or Sunday. It just amazes me that he just can't spend that much time with her. When she is here, he would disappear to watch sports and I would have to inform him his daughter is here, I am sure she would like to spend time with YOU. He thought I was going to entertain her and take care of her while she was here. I had to keep informing him that his daughter came to spend time with HIM. He would get so mad. I just can't comprehend how he just expected me to do everything for her and he was going to disappear and watch tv.
I hate the fact that everyone assumes that since I work from home, that I can babysit or run errands for them. They just do not understand the WORK part.
Baby sitter
I know this. My husband has two small grandchildren
I cared for them one day a week as baby's to save on child care. Since my husband has retired and I'm treated like a nobody I now tell him when they come over he is to care for them .he didn't do that well.