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Is she effing kidding me????

BSgoinon's picture

Since DH has been ignoring BM's texts and calls, she decided to show up at his office. He was busy leading a webinar so he couldn't come down stairs. And he wouldn't have anyway. But seriously??/ What the hell does she want? She dropped off an envelope. It had a printed copy of the email her landlord sent him.

My best friend is DH's secretary. So, while he was on said webinar, I stopped by, opened the envelope and shredded it.

She also text him and told him that if she gets one more text from me today she is going to file a restraining order against me.... Um, I haven't text her. At all. In a LONG time.

WOW.

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WalkOnBy's picture

This is your brain on meth.

Does your husband's building have a reception desk? Security post? Anything that could keep her away?

BSgoinon's picture

Reception desk with 2 girls up there, and now that BM knows that it's my best friend that sits there... I doubt she will come back LOL. I am willing to bet she was sitting somewhere watching to see if I would show up. You bet your ass I did. And I laughed when I saw 2 sheriff cars sitting in the parking lot. Probably scared her to death!!! The owners daughter is married to a sheriff, he was there to pick her up for lunch and his buddy was with him. HAHAHHAHAH she probably shit her pants.

BSgoinon's picture

Can I get any takers on punching BM in the head? Apparently NO JAIL TIME.

fakemommy's picture

Actually the text saying you are texting was just to bait DH into texting her back. She knows you didn't text, she just thinks it is a clever way to get DH to respond and pay attention to her.

BSgoinon's picture

Yeah, that's what I told DH. She is desperately attempting ANYTHING to get him to respond to her. He's not that easily coxed. Not by her anyway LOL.

BSgoinon's picture

Oh, you know. That DH needs to forgive and forget and allow BM to see SS "without issue". She just "needs a second chance".

We are totally taking in to consideration the advice from the 22 year old girl that had known BM exactly 4 days when she sent the email. You just wait honey, she will burn you too.

uofarkchick's picture

Is that chick a meth head too? What rational person involves themselves in another family's business like that?

uofarkchick's picture

Yep, she's not sober. The front desk at my work knew to call the police if Mr. Meth showed up. If she's stupid enough to do it again, they need to let her know that she is trespassing and that they are calling 911.

BSgoinon's picture

For sure. I let them both know. And the office manager. DH is rarely even in the office. I am shocked she caught him in town. He just got home last night. Kinda makes me think she is stalking him. Our car wasn't even there. It was in for an oil change.

uofarkchick's picture

EEEEK!!!! Is there any chance that someone could be leaking information to her? Like a sympathetic friend from high school or something? Did he post on social media that he was home? Did you or your stepson?

BSgoinon's picture

We don't do social media. And anyone that we know that knows her... doesn't talk to her. Ever. SS only puts baseball pics up. And it's just instagram. No "status" or anything like that.

uofarkchick's picture

Well, mercy... I think you may have a stalker on your hands then. Is there any way she could have access to your husband's email accounts? I know men can be notorious for not changing their passwords or using the same one for every account. Is it possible that she may have a hold of a password that he used back when they were together? I know this sounds so paranoid but he may want to log in and see what IP addresses have been accessing his account. I know Outlook and Gmail have that function.

BSgoinon's picture

Ew.
I don't think she has any intention of trying to get him back LOL, she is crazy but I don't think she even wants that... he is so NOT friendly to her. Pretty sure she hates him. LOL. But... the first 8 years we were together... yeah, she thought she could get him back.

uofarkchick's picture

What in the hell is wrong with these people? Is it something in the water? Bad genes? Have some f'ing respect for yourself and let it go!! Your husband's ex is fifty shades of crazy...

BSgoinon's picture

Not a chance. He and I have the same password for everything and it's one that is not something she would ever know. He has all new email addresses, bank accounts, everything. And we have been together 12 years. She doesn't even know him well enough to attempt to hack anything anymore.

uofarkchick's picture

Dup

So_Annoyed's picture

Ugh, this sounds like the BM in our world. She would so do that to DH.

He ignores, doesn't ever answer her calls or reply, blocks every number she gets. And then she write him letters that aren't understandable. Yeah, the drugs have definitely taken their tolls on these broads.

hereiam's picture

When her landlord DOES get burned by her, you should email her and tell her that BM deserves a second chance.

Some people really need to mind their own business.

Your poor DH, having THAT show up at his office.

BSgoinon's picture

hereiam, DH said WHEN Bm burns her is is just going to reply "HA". Nothing else, just "HA".

DH was SOOOO embarrassed. Several of the girls that work there saw her. Oh man, my BFF said she looked like someone put too much make up on a corpse. Sounds about right.

And what is with tweakers and RED lipstick??? I don't get it.